Bad relationship, end it? or keep for sex?

If your in a bad relationship, either they treat you like crap or you them, or you just lost the spark, do you leave them, or keep the sex and wait for the blow out?

I can't stay with a girl if she doesnt give me those butterflies when I see her or kiss her, no matter how good the sex is. My friends call me an ass for that but, I duno, I just can't. I'm a little over a year out of a 5 year relationship and the spark never failed there.... just my intelligence. So I don't exactly bore easily.


So let me get some feed back

 

Hmmm...wow! I'm not sure how to react to that question. Call me crazy, but sometimes life is too short to live it alone!!!!!

 

good point, so you would keep the sex around? by the way great philosophy about bud and booze

 

First I'd try to fix the relationship (with my partner's help, of course). If it still doesn't work but we still want the sex, I don't know... maybe we can become fuck buddies, but NO WAY am I staying in that relationship in its current state.

 

everytime i see my boyfriend he gives me butterflies and everytime i kiss him i feel loved and the sex is amazing but thers just something thats missing and i dont know what. But yea if the sex was the only thing thats good i would try to find someone better because i would rather be in love and get butterflies and stuff rather than just sex

 

I get that. The one thing I hate about long term relationships it that the butterflies and that tingling you get from a new or semi-new person. I miss that myelf. That feeling of are you gonna fuck or not. Its tough in the long run, but stability feels good too!

 

He calls you an ass for that?! Pssh. That's how I think relationships should be. Butterflies are wonderful. ^.^

 

I haven't read the rest of the thread. but if i was in a bad relationship and got treated like crap... there is no way on this earth i'd stick around for sex!
Sex is the last thing i want in a relationship. I can sacrifice that for the goods of having kisses, cuddles and talking...

 

Stay with someone for SEX? Uh, no. Gawd be in a decent relationship or masturbate, i say

 

love is harder to replace than sex, get some sex toys.