ok, I might seem like a loser (because I am)... There was a girl that I liked a lot from school last year, and what happend was we talked alot online and in class and stuff, and to me it seemed like she liked me. the school year had ended and me being the idiot I am never thought to get her phone number... So after school was over for the summer I was facebooking her (lame for facebooking), and we had talked back and fourth a bit...Well one night I was fucked up (tripping) and stupidly decided to tell her that I had a bit of a crush on her, because I deffinately did...I believe my exact words were, "I think you may have made me fall in love with you..." or something to that extent... I felt dumb doing that cause not only did I do it on facebook, but I came on a bit stong and cheesey.... Now she replied to me by saying I was sweet and stuff and I didn't know what the hell that meant, so I said something like, "I was on drugs lastnight," and I think that offended her because she seemed mad at me after that,maybe thinking that I didnt like her. and I figured I fucked everything up majorly.... So then I sent her a message like a week later talking about newsradio season5 on dvd that we both liked, and she said that we should watch it sometime together all the way thru... season 1-5, which would take like 2 days probably...... heres where it gets awkward and confusing. so she asked where I was living, cause I moved out of the dorms and I told her where my dad lived, cause I was staying there for the summer, but I really just said the town where I lived expecting her to ask further questions into where exactly he lives cause I thought that would be smoother.... So she never replied, and it made no sence, I figured she was just leading me on or something to not offend me even though theoretically it was her idea to hang out......did I offend her? Did she perhaps think that I wasn't interested in it, because the way she wrote to me, it seemed like she was excited to hang out (excessive use of exclamation points and text-smiles)...or am I perhaps just a creepy loser? as of today, I hadnt talked to her in like a month or so, partly due to the fact that I hardly use facebook anymore and because the entire situation seems awkward....well today on facebook I noticed that she put a new relationship status on (having never had one before)...and it says single, now what I'm wondering is why someone would put a relationship status up, never having had one before?....and also do you think it is a sign for me to try and work out these weird problems, and misunderstandings? also I am aware that I seem like a complete loser using facebook as a method of talking to girls, it was my only real line of comunication with her...and I felt dorky doing it at the time.........
theres nothing wronge with sending her a message to say something like "hey girl, how you doing? u still wanna catch up & watch that dvd?" but saying you love her & then afterwards saying "ok i was on drugs when i said that" im suprised she still talked to you after that.....it sunds like if she invited you to watch dvds you should ask her if she still wants to
You told her you were on drugs!!! LOL okay, you need to say everything you just said to us, to her, I think she will understand the situation alot better and she can then give you a clearer answer. And as for the DVD part. Ask her AFTER you have explained the part about drugs etc etc
