Average time of penetration.

Curious about how long it lasts. I think Kinsey says the average time for coitus is 7 minutes. I assume that doesn't include foreplay!

 

Yes 7-20 on average

 

20 sounds really nice. I've actually known more than one quy would could easily last half an hour without cracking a sweat. The friend who was part of our threesome would frequently go that long when he was fucking my wife. I was impressed and jealous at the same time!

For me, the average is (was) 7-10 minutes (10 on a good day.)

 

I think Kinsey was working with a bunch of jack rabbit college students....7 minutes.... Oh and Kinsey, the professor fox in the hen house..

It all depends on the circumstance. If she's 'warmed me up' too much before, it could go off in a few minutes, there's usually no going back at that point unless you just take a break for a while..

Otherwise with little or no foreplay or if we've recently had an encounter, I can last as long as necessary to get the job completed....I just kind of mentally turn it off...on just enough to stay with it then finish when she's had her due....maybe I use distraction, thinking of baseball or my frightening mother in law so I don't cum.. If I let my mind wander, it's all over. The only thing there...the longer I delay it, the less intense the grand finale is for me...such is life.

However, I have gotten the "Ok, ok, ok.... you have three minutes" when she's not in the mood for it.....ready.....GO !! I have always have made it under the buzzer !!! I've never really dared test her on the time limit though....

 

Heh... Many years after our threesome ended, my wife told me that when our friend just kept fucking her and fucking her, all she really wanted was for him to cum in her and be done with it. She said that it stopped being pleasurable and just became (please excuse the pun) boring. She told me that she would never in a million years have told him to stop or even hurry up, but all the while, she was thinking, Get on with it, for God sake!

 

I've been there....here we are thinking it's better for them and they're thinking we need it.....oh, you could have said something 20 minutes ago..

 

We average an hour, but have gone to 2 hours. She’s hot and always willing.

 

oh gosh

 

I can do 20 minutes or two pumps

 

the 20 minutes - sigh- I dream of sort of a long slow session that would be so sensual

i read on one of your posts that you were working on "sensitivity" )I'm embarassed to ask what is pre-jac? explain it to me like I'm in my mid-20s and have had one wonderful older lover and then one stupid boyfriend

 

a prejac is just shorten for premature ejaculation in the most sense. Prejac is a guy that just wants to blow his load usually with a trigger, like as soon as a woman tacks of her shirt he prejac or prejacs before she can even get it fulling off.

 

ok I see, thanks- I'm learning more every day

 

Me too!

 

I think it is a combination of youth, experience, and the situation. Way back when I was with my first girlfriend at age 19 (both virgins) I had issues with PE. I would go down on her to make sure she came, and then with PIV It was over way too soon. I felt badly about that, but I never really learned self control. Shame on me!
Later in my sexual journeys it was hit and miss. if that was the first time with someone new, I didn’t last near enough. I felt ashamed! Then I hooked up with a long time FWB. The first time was in a pressured situation…. again, I was done too quickly. She could feel my angst and told me not to worry about it…. the next time would be better. Well guess who shows up at my apartment that evening? And it was so much better, as were subsequent weekly rumps over the next year. A good 15 to 20 minutes easy. She taught me so much about self control and pleasing her.
FF through a few LTRs up to my current wife. we had been communicating online, text and phone calls before I actually saw her in the flesh. Just a quick greeting, confirming plans for our first date. She was so freaking hot…. both of us divorced 40 years olds and out of any relationships for a while, (me more than her). Anyway, I was out at a bar with a friend who introduced me to one of his friends, and he shared the holy Grail of what you do before a first date, that you think you might get lucky. JERK OFF before the date. it worked! a quick tug in the shower and out we went. Probably the most intense sex I’ve ever had in my life. And I lasted a good 20 minutes…. Long enough for her to come twice, and then a third time when I did….in her! After a brief break we’re at it again.. damn that was a good night! I have never lasted less than 20 minutes since then. Thankfully my now wife is multi orgasmic… when she settles down that gives me a break and we start again. Good times!

 

AHA! The Holy Grail discovered!!
It totally makes sense

learn sth. new. everyday

 

What is sth?

 

"something"

here I'm learning new things and ideas every day

 

Yeah....sometimes foreplay lasts longer. I think with some first time partners, it's quick. All about the fucking. But I've been with some women where, after we get to know each other, the penetration and the long, slow fucking can go on for a long time. I can recall a few times where I've been inside of her for nearly an hour...on and off. Mouth for a while but pussy for much longer. I still have to slow things down to keep me from finishing too quickly so those long sessions include a lot of slowdown where I'm deep inside of her but not moving much or too quickly. She might wiggle a little...or a lot...to keep feeling my thickness but once I get it under control, she gets more thrusting. I recall one session when, by the time we finished, we were both soaked with sweat and the only reason we finished was her enormous climax which gripped me so hard that I could't hold back any longer. Had she not climaxed that big one, I might still be fucking her right now!

She was a good fit. Grunted a little when I would first put it all the way in, even when she was silky wet but then she would take it like crazy.

 

For me it depends on my partner and the heat of the moment and the particular session. My wife enjoys oral and then penetration which lasts around 10 minutes. My fwb enjoys a lot of oral with multiple orgasms and then a pounding with several orgasms also the penetration part lasting around 10 minutes. My fb enjoys long oral and multiple orgasms with slow penetration which can last upwards of 30 minutes or longer in many different positions. A few other partners but not regular sessions it all depends but again probably no more than 15 minutes

 

I've never set a timer or did a survey of how long it takes me from initial entrance in the pussy to cumming. Sometimes I can barely get balls deep before I'm filling it up with cum. Other times I can't seem to get over the top for what seems like forever. My average could be 5 minutes or 25 minutes, I really don't know. What I do know is I love the feeling of a nice wet warm pussy engulfing my cock and I could stay like that for hours if my cock would oblige. It never does.