Alright, I've never had a gay experience, I'm not openly bi or whatever, I've dated a ton of guys, I'm your typical straight girl. Heres the thing: I am attracted to girls in a different way than guys. Like, with guys I can take one look and decide if he's hot. I love guys, dating them is incredibly fun. I wouldn't have it any other way (or would i?) But after I decide if a guy is hot/nice or w/e, thats my opinion of them, I don't pay alot of attention, I mean, I do, but it's equally distributed attention. I'd never stare or check a guy out unless he knew I was checking him out, which is a clear signal for 'lets talk' But with girls, I watch them, note their habits, patterns, I watch her flip her hair, or watch some other girl write in her books, I pay much closer attention, and I adore girls for all their qualities and idiosyncrasies. is this just a simple appreciation for the same sex? I dont know waht it is but i'd never write in a journal about a boyfriend and how much I loved him or anything like that, but I've written about a girl or three that I find totally hot and interesting. Sometimes I plainly think a girl is hot, but like thats just animal magnetism. Anyways I prefer girls to guys I guess, but i couldn't really say I'd prefer to date or have sex with a girl to a guy, I like guys that way. Any thoughts?