At first glance

Is there anyone in your life that you met, who you wanted to have sex with when you first met them?
As an old slut bartender, I had that feeling a lot and fortunately was alble to pull it off on many different women. When our eyes met, you could feel it. Have you felt it upon first glance? man or woman

 

Oh, lots of women I'd notice and would love to fuck.

Men, not so much, uh ok, maybe a couple but I'm not sure if they were available or interested but the ok guy looks ok in my book. Would hope they would have a really nice cock for my first.

 

I still ponder the idea of having sex with almost every woman I meet. That aint happening. The opportunity to accept a bj from our gay friend presented itself and I eventually broke down and took the offer. Great bjs and no hastles or strings. Being on the recieving end was ok. It wasn't until my wife basicly shamed into returning the favor. When I did,she watched and encuraged me as I did it. The whole situation was surealistic and worth the letting go of my inhibitions . Don't miss the opportunity, should it present itself.

 

I think the idea of a wife or another woman there to encourage the guys to try would help break the ice or relax and I always wanted a 3some.

If the female is egging you on and wants to see the guys play it might be more incentive to try. Of course she's welcome to join in.

 

That somehow reminds me of the funny SNL skit song with Timberlake "It's not gay if it's in a three way".

It's was hilarously funny at the time, but now I see it as slightly biphobic? Or mocking bi guys a bit.

I had a personal trainer to work on my back after an injury, I told him there was a funny skit song with Timberlake. He wanted to know what it was. I whispered it to him in the gym so my voice wouldn't echo or boom. He burst out into laughter, tears streaming down his eyes.

Ironically, I think he might gave been slightly bi, by the vibes I picked up from him? I've noticed that most adult men, who are genuinely caring about other men, seem to give off that vibe?

 

There have been a number of women i've met over the years that I would have been all over if I could. Even now I imagine how good it would feel with some of the younger gals I come across. When I was younger, there were a few I worked with that wanted to and nearly got me to get sexually involved with them. But, I was very married at the time and resisted taking the risk. And, it was probably a good decision.
Now that I'm much older and on my own, I don't get those opportunities anymore. But, I get the attention of other guys and so I go with it, enjoying every moment. Sex is sex.

 

Yes, there have been several women I've met like this. One I married. It took a week before we were having sex but I wanted her right away. That started a torrid sex life that lasted decades. I've encountered other women, was even alone with the stars lined up to proceed with one, but backed away because it just didn't feel right. It wasn't until my spouse and I had a deep discussion about sexual needs after her illness sidelined her sexual activity that I had my first meet and fuck. It was a short time before we were in bed together after meeting. She became a fuck buddy for a year or so.

 

There’s been a few hot looking women when that happened.
There’s been fewer guys. One guy we started planning but got interrupted. Never saw him again. There was another were we were standing beside each other at the urinals. His cock was huge. I got hard immediately

 

I have to know a person before I initiate a sexual encounter with him. After I'm sure he wants me, I start asking questions. I know I always ask way too many questions of him, like if he is married or alone, does he smoke or do drugs, does he bareback or always use condoms, does he get tested regularly for STDs and HIV, when and what the results are, if he is on PrEP (like I am), what his living situation is, my place or his and so on. I tell him I am a cautious man... it's how I have spent decades clean and safe.

In the past few years, I have become more shy than I should be. My age is a big reason for it, that and rejection just harms my mind, so I rely on online dating to meet someone. It used to be I had no difficulties meeting a stranger in public, getting to know him over a drink or coffee and rolling the dice go home with him. Now, I always hope that any first intimacies will lead to a relationship and then maybe even lead to a mutual love for each other. I still feel that my best relationships almost always began in bed. I'll keep looking though.

 

I had encouraged her to try it with another woman, and she did. She is the one who told me it was my turn. I held off until it was a logical choice. My wife likes watching gay and bi vids and I would watch with her.