Hi all I have been in a relationship with my gf for over 2 months. Last time she had requested me to lick her ass chicks and asshole during foreplay. But I could only kiss her bums and she was bit upset. Next time I want to give her full pleasure by licking her anus to a maximum extent. So kindly tell me the best way to do it . Is enema necessary before doing it?
I don't think an enema is necessary. Just make sure she showers first. Than just go to town on her ass with your tongue man.
yea use your tongue first definitely. Than after doing that a few times and she warms up to it use a finger. Than go from there
If you are going to do anal afterwards; which I recommend you do, then yes she should clean her ass with an enema if possible. If she wants you to lick her butt, then tell her you want to put it in her butt. Just being real, eating a girls ass is just a tease for us guys to not be able to put it in there. So if this is an invitation for anal, I'd say GO FOR IT! Eating your girls butt is the best way to relax her anus and get it acclimated to her mind as a pleasure center, so it will begin to respond to stimulation better. Then all you need is good water based lube. The only reason I don't recommend silicone lube is because it could damage the toys if you get them. If you're not using the toys get a silicone lube. I'd then move to fingers. Make sure your nails are cut AND filed, nothing worse than freshly cut nails to give her an anal fissure. You want short smooth nails. If you want to really be successful with anal so she won't have pain I recommend you get an anal trainer set, something like this: http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Wendy-Williams-Trainer/dp/B005C3V0WW/ref=sr_1_27?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1319675700&sr=1-27"]Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Doc Johnson Wendy Williams Anal Trainer Kit, Black: Health & Personal Care Doc Johnson makes great stuff. They are a classic brand, plus their stuff is reasonably priced and well made. This will help to dilate and relax her anus progressively. You can have these bad boys in there while you're doing vaginal, and when she's ready just place your penis for the plug. I also recommend you let her be on top to control the speed and depth of penetration. Also tell her to gently bear down with her anus as if she's trying to pass gas when you are trying to insert the toys or your penis in her butt. It seems counter intuitive, but having her push her anus out will open her butt hole so you can stick things in it easier. Good luck!
why would you need lube if you was licking her ass properly? if shes cleaned up, nothing more is needed but a baby wipe and dry. I would assume since she asked you, she had already be prepared for it, meaning: she probably cleaned her ass with a wash cloth. So you could lick there. if shes really into anal, she would of douched her ass out and been relatively clean for penetrations. But I dont know her personally..
You don't need lube for anal, it might make it easier though (and messier). You also don't need to have an enema for either anal or licking her bum. If you are nervous about smell/taste/dirtiness then I recommend taking a bath together and exploring there, she will be super clean if you wash her with soap, you won't taste anything other than her tasty skin and she will get really turned on, especially if she's asking you for it and so upset when you don't deliver! Remember to go slow and tease a whole lot. Before anal sex you want to know her asshole like the back of your hand, use lips, tongue, fingers, and don't ignore her pussy while you do it either. Also consider giving her a full servicing with a vibrator in her pussy while you make out with her bum , visit the clit occasionally too, get her whole body involved.
it is highly recommended, fecal matter must go somewhere. It is not good for this to be displaced and pushed back into the lower intestines. This can cause Appendicitis, kidney infections, lower back pain which most will dismiss because that had anal sex. Looking more closely and its likely unclean anal sex is causing the problem..
Some people are put off by the thought of a bad taste, so try a little dab of Tabasco sauce first. It will cover up any bad tastes, and make her really hot. Just don't use too much.
thanks for your advises . Now i have thoroughly tasted my gf rear hole (of course after taking shower). Licking her anus has become regular and both of us are enjoying it . Now even at times i insert my tongue there stretching the cheeks apart . We have not tried anal yet. Is use of condom necessary for it.
Necessary? Not if you are both 100% confident of each other being totally clear of any STDs. Advisable? Possibly. Regarding Birth Control, although unlikely, it is still technically possible for semen to be transferred into the vagina without actual penetration (immaculate conception is not necessarily limited to deities). There is also the hygiene factor of the transfer of faecal matter. This, of course can be managed by thorough cleansing afterwards. Generally, using a condom might be advisable to start with, but it's all down to individual circumstances.