Asking wife what(if anything) she would like to enjoy

Most of the posts here are about the men here and what they need and want. What about the Women?
Would they like a bi affair with another woman? My wife tried it with a woman once, but she wasn't into it. She doesnt' care about sex for herself anymore, but she does enjoy testing my limits. Has anyone managed to get your non sexual wife back into the swing of things? Ive tried everything to get her back onto the playing field, but she says she is happy being a spectator.

 

My gf’s absolute favourite is me being with her after another guy. Always works.

 

I always employed things that I knew my wife really enjoyed and knew would give her a few good orgasms. She did the same with me. I tried new things all the time to freshen up our routine and keep that which she responded to favorably. If she wasn't satisfied then neither was I.

 

If my wife actually wanted any sex play at all I would most likely not even be on this forum, but here I am, trying to find any spark at all, and being here for her. For me, relief from frustration leading to depression, by getting with another man in the same situation and getting ourselves off

 

It’s been about 6 years now and I don’t think my wife will ever get back into it…well let’s be honest, she was never really into but but she did it. Now it’s a “shucks it stinks I’m such a bad wife in the sex department”.
I’ve tried so many things over the years to “spark” something…anything in her but to no avail.
She’s very anti bisexual as well so I know she wouldn’t want that. To her you’re either straight or gay. Someone she knew was straight….got with a girl for a few years and then back to a guy and she said “once you’re that way (with a woman) you’re probably always that way”

 

My wife is 100% straight.

 

A couple of years ago I had my wife talking about her past and various conquests. She still hasn’t told me everything I’m sure - but the conversations were getting hotter.

I once asked her if she’d ever try a threesome, and she revealed that if she did, it would be with another woman, and not a man.

I’ve tried pursuing the dream but family matters, car accidents and a new granddaughter who’s about to come into our lives, has meant she’s lost all interest in our chats and sex life.

If I could get her back on track I’d like to reveal my desire to have another man involved….for her, and for me. It might mean we’d need to consider a foursome

I think that’ll be a tough conversation though as she’s very much up against MM interaction. We used to watch porn together and if it featured men on men, she’d insist that it was turned off.

 

Then you would have to play with her desires or interests, as opossed to pursuing M/M interaction. Like you mentioned, swinging with another couple is a possibility. Things could always take off from there. Would she like to fuck another guy or possibly with the other woman. Would she be cool with watching you doing it with the other woman.What would she propose?

 

Hopefully one day I’ll be able to answer your questions @topper

 

My wife has always known I find lesbian, Bi Women etc a turn on.
I've never his it from her that I would like a threesome with a female and have no reservations about her having sex with that female.
It's all talk and come to nothing.
She knows I like ass play giving and receiving. She doesn't mind receiving a little. Not so often that she might initiate or start something on me.
She's never suggested we have a second guy in our bed.
I'm open to a lot more now than I ever was and like to keep things interesting.
I think a threesome should be everyone's bucket list. It might not be for everyone but it's something I wish we explored previously. So long as noone gets hurt it's just an experience you don't have to go back .
Would I share her with another guy? Probably. If it's mutually agreeable and discrete why not spice it up .
I'm pretty sure her objective is it's all about her and 2 of us turning our attention on her, fuck it it's probably fun anyway as we could spit roast her and I think she would like DP if I'm in I'm a in and she could have her way.