Asking if she's a virgin

How inappropriate is it to ask a girl if she's a virgin on a first date! Would you lose any chance of kissing her later that night. And not just on a date. Is it okay to ask (assuming you know them) whether their cherry has been popped? I always really want to know

 

It's inappropriate to ask on a first date.
Does it even matter....

 

Of course it matters whether or not another guy has defiled or fornicated all over a future girlfriend of mine!

 

Are you a virgin?

 

Are you ready to hear about her cruise to Jamaica?

If you are, then just ask away...although, to many women the BBC wouldn't count because it wasn't 'love' (and she was drunk). So, I guess a better question is:

Are you ready to be lied to?

 

No good girl would let that be done to themselves? I figure she's a virgin if she hasn't been in any relationships

 

There appears to be some very clouded thinking going on here.

 

Yes I am.. but I can't ask her whether she values waiting for marriage on date number 3! I know she's a good girl.. but good girls get horny too

 

unless your an uber christian, dont end up with a girl that's waiting for marriage

(hate me all you want)

enjoy your youth while you still got it dude

 

Ending up with a girl that's waiting for marriage ironically enough is the only way I'd be nearly certain no one else dumped their load of nasty jizz in to my girlfriend! That for some reason is important to me.. perhaps more important than meaningless fucks

 

If someone asked me if I was a virgin, I would dump them immediately

I figure someone who is so interested to know is someone who is interested in sex sooner than later, and that is something that I am not interested in

Way inappropriate

 

Just because she isn't a virgin, doesn't mean she's had a 'load of someones nasty jizz' in them... if she's smart, condoms were involved

 

i completely understand what you're saying dude.

but you dont have to think of it as her meaningless fucks, or how many dudes used her a cum dumpster.

the secret is finding a chick that isnt a nasty slutty hoe.
find a cool chick that aint some dirty playa, that's maybe been w/ 2/3 dudes before, or in your case: still a virgin. but remember a girl that wants to wait till marriage
is gonna make YOU wait till marriage. but if you're prepared for that,, all the more power to ya dude

 

besides, isnt it more important to find a cool chick you can chill with anywayz? (of course you dont want a nasty slut though)

i think it doesnt really matter if the chick is a virgin or not personally

 

Waiting for a virgin isn't all it's cracked up to be anyway.. my boyfriend is very sexually experienced.. I've only been with two guys and my first boyfriend I only had sex with a few times, so I was very inexperienced when I met him and am still mildly inexperienced.. and he has a lot to say about the fact that there is some things I can't do or don't know and he has to teach me. You'll find a lot of guys have regrets about fucking a virgin...

 

Idjit or Troll.

 

That was obvious before even clicking on the thread, based solely on the OP.. lol

 

If you are still a virgin you would be way better off having sex your first time with someone who has some experience so the situation isn't all clumsy and awkward. Chances are if she has been with someone before she has washed the other guys man seed away and that won't be a problem. Woman that like sex are not a bad thing. They are actually a whole lot of fun to spend time with. Surpress that in them and you are the one who is going to be missing out.

 

Clumsy and awkward was the way that I preferred it, considering that I lost my virginity to another virgin. Nothing would be more of a turn off than trying to fuck someone with a huge sex ego who tries to educate you rather than letting you try to find your own rhythm..