I asked a girl out from my math class that I don't really know very well. I'm pretty sure that she likes me because the first time we met she asked me my name and when I told her and that asked her for her name and then said nice to meet you she giggled. After class one day, after a test, I was walking out of class and she was behind me. I turned around and started talking to her. We talked and when we got outside we both stopped and kept talking. I then asked her if she wanted to go to dinner with me that night and she said "I would but I have to drive 45 minutes home but maybe another time." So seeing as she said "I would" and "maybe another time" I still think that I have a chance with her. The thing is, how do I ask her the next time that I see her? which is tomorrow by the way. How do I ask her out a second time?
I got her phone number and want to say "are u really just busy cuz id rather u just said no if u really dont wanna go out with me." Is that a bad thing to say or should I text her saying that? (she did give me her number, i didn't just get it from somewhere lol)
Call her and ask if she just wants to hang outwith you, formal dates can be really weird, especially if you don't know each other very well. See I have never understood why we are expected to go on these "super formal, all serious" dates before the two people even know each other, and then, AFTER you do those, you might, just maybe, get to know them if they decide they liked the stare fest's (dates). IMO hanging out and getting to know them and to be able to see whether it could actually work between you two is much better than doing what I mentioned above, but alas, morbid societal customs that the media pushes for financial gain will always dominate I suspect... EDIT: but ya man you have her number, on some level im sure she expects you being the male to initiate at this point so the ball is definitively in your court so to speak, you need to call her, dont worry about it man, she gave you her number, that means she has interest in you, if the number works when you call it, that is, ^_^
Well, from the girl's point of view I would prefer to get a "short, cool and clear" message, nothing too desperate or serious, just like the one Austin mentioned before.. good luck!
Don't say: "are u really just busy cuz id rather u just said no if u really dont wanna go out with me." It seems a little aggresive. Her "excuse" was a good one. Just ask her to the cinema or something casual. (not casual sex I hasten to add).
chill with her, casually as hell..then things will roll mayn! i did these serious ass dates a while back, they were cool, but then you got to do them casual ass times. just watch TV with her..or finger her lol jk ahaha get her drunk ! lol thats terrible though, dont do that. if you take her to a party thats a bad idea, she is gonna find another dude. if you take shit seriousl-dont do it, cuz you dont know her perseption..she could be like "whatever" about the situation. dont fuk your self over and take things chill. please also dont say "hey I still really wana take you out sometime if you still wana go" thats terrible. you will sound desperate.. "i still really wanna take you out" ???!? what the fuck mate?
