I'm listening to a song call "Devil's Dance Floor" In the song they say "...she took me by the hand, i could see she was a firey one..." Did i mention I was bored? no? ok, well anyways, I came up with a really weird way to ask a guy out. Tell me what you think.. This would be the coolest way to ask a guy out. Have your name and number written on a peice of paper and hold it in your hand and then Grab him and just start dancing with him but , leave the piece of paper with your name and number on it in his hand when you leave.
I don't consider this as asking out, more like trying to get to know each other better by giving him your number. By the way, asking a guy out is not a best of an idea. Is it? Myself, if being asked out by a girl (which already happened) would most likely say No! I think it is kinda a man thing to ask a girl out. Don't you?
give em your card, if you dont have one, theres free software downloads and go to walmart and buy the cards to stick in the printer, instant cards! and a very classy way to say, call me. or if he smokes, hand him a pack of matches, with your name and number in it. cute, and useful! lol seriously both works at least for me. everyone is different though.
No, I don't. I think it's equal. I amost always ask the guy out, but that might be that might be me. No Guy at my school really likes me, thats the thing. I don't really get outside my group to get to know someone to get them to like me. So really, this thread was pointless.
i think it's great too. But it gets tiring eventually, and it kinda makes ya feel like no one likes you though. lono. Its all weird
I think its great when a women asks me out. Im the kind of guy that likes strong confident women, and asking a guy out shows that they are confident and past that old school steriotype.
I have never been asked out. Honestly, I would like nothing more and, unless the girl was rank and ugly, there's only .0000001% chance of me saying no.
..........and it was rare, I ALWAYS accepted no matter who the girl was. I was hoping to set a good example and to encourage it happening more. But I was an idealist back then (the 70s) and here we are in the 21st century and this is STILL an issue??? I thank my wife daily for tolerating me and staying these last 16 years. I would HATE to be dating these days (except that the web really does increase one's chances exponentially). Partly because there really is STILL a stigma aabout women asking men out. Why on earth does this not change? Why are so many dating expectations still so old fashioned? I'm not suggesting group sex on the first date, but geeeez folks, it's the 21st century, go ahead and ask the guy out before some as shole bombs a mall. Love is really the ONLY thing that makes life on this planet tolerable. Humor comes in at a close second. Then food! CF
I don't mind asking a guy out but i feel retarded when i do it because none of my other friends ask guys out, but also i'm tired of doing it because i have had a guy ask me out maybe....3 times. And I have asked a guy out.... 13 times. It just makes me feel ugly or weird. its hard to explain
You should ask more guys out more often to improve your chances. I used to work as a door to door salesman and it sucked so bad, but we worked by something called the law of averages. This law states that if you ask 100 people to buy your product you will be rejected 90 times, but 10 people are guaranteed to say yes. So our success as salesman was not dependent on how good you are at pitching the product, but rather how many people you approached during the day and how well you can handle rejection.
