why is everything so hard to figure out? Well, not everything, just guys, or relationships with them. There's this guy in one of my classes who I talk to alot and we get along real well. So, one night I saw him at a coffee place I was at with a friend and we ended up hanging out with him and his friends for awhile, and it was fun. We laugh alot and tons in common, and everything's groovy, plus I feel really comfortable around him, and I'm never comfortable around guys I like. So, the last test we had in this class, we both got abysmal grades, and then the teacher announced that we were having another, so last monday I saw this boy at school, and he asked if I wanted to study with him, and I said yes. The day before the test rolls around, and we talk at school and he says he'll call me after we both get off work. So 5 o'clock and I'm done with work and on my way back to school, for a 15 minute appt., and he calls. I thought he was someone else on the phone, and after doing the "who is this" thing a couple times, he says "don't tell me forgot about our date tonight!" well I was a little suprised (though happy!) and said "it's a date?" he said "I don't know", but in a tone that impplied that he thought it was, so I said well if it is I had to change clothes. Anyway, I tell him I'll be done at school around 5:30, and he says he'll call then. My appt ends early, and I come home, change, and he calls at 10 to 6. I say I went home to change and he said "oh so it is a date" and I said I guess so. So anyway, we meet up, study, talk, laugh alot and generally have a really great time. During the course of this time, I mention a drum circle I go to alot, and he asked if I went every weekned. I said I try to every sunday, and he said "well we should go this sunday......like together". Then around 9:30 we decide we're both tired and he asked if I could give him a ride to his car, and of course I do. We get there and he asks if I want to smoke a bowl, I say no thanks, and he says ok, see you tommorow and hops out of the car. Doesn't try to kiss me or anything, so I figure he either changed his mind about me, was playing it cool, or was being a gentleman. So thursday comes around, I go to class and he's late, but there's an empty seat next to me, so when he comes in he sees me and asks if I saved the seat for him, so I say yes. He finishes the test before me, and as he's leaving (and smiling at me) I ask him to call me later and he says yes. Well, he didn't call untill yesterday, and asked if we were going to the drum circle that day. I say, no, tomorow, and he says (and I quote) well lets go today and tommorow". I tell him I can't, I have plans with my cousin to check out a band for her wedding, and he says ok, he'll call me tommorow (which was today, sunday). So, since he had asked what time the drum circle starts, and I said around 4 it gets good, I figured he'd call later in the day, around 3 or 4. So 4 rolls around, no call. It's now 10:30 and he still hasn't called. His cell phone is broken, and that's the only number of his I have, so I can't call (I tried a couple times and no luck). so what am I supposed to think here? Is he obviously not interested in me in a dating way, and if so, why couldn't he atleast have the courtesy to call and cancel at the very least? I mean, if he doesn't like me, then fine, I can live, it's not like I'm desperatly in love here, lol. But what gives? Is it just me, or is there some major mixed signal thing going on here? advice would be good, thanks for reading you guys
if his cell phone is broken, he might not be able to access the numbers that he stored in there, such as yours. otherwise, that's kind of weird, but i'd ask him about it. i don't think it necessarily means he isn't interested in you (i'd assume he'd come up with an excuse before hand, rather than just not call on the night of). it sounds like you guys have fun times ahead. i hope everything works out for you.
yeah, that would be good, but it's been broken this whole time, he wrote my number down on a piece of paper. Maybe he lost that.... thanks for reading the whole post sister, it was damn long! and thank you for your wishes, very kind blessings and love to you
Maybe he just forgot, lol. Clever as it sounds, they say that guys do forget to ring and stuff like that. I guess its cause they dont like communicating through a phone cause they run outa things to say. I know i dont, but im not a male LOL. I duno, there sounld be amillion reasons why he didn't. I can see why your pretty confused tho.
hey paix, yeah, it's possible he lost your number. you never know. the only number he gave you was to his broken cell phone? is he planning on getting it fixed soon? or why else would he give out a number that won't work? i don't know, it just seems a little weird. i used to use my old cell phone number as a "fake" number, which i guess is why i wonder about that. but this guy is probably a lot nicer than i am. it could have been unintentional... he could give out the cell phone number out of habit, but really meant to write down a different number. i've accidently done that one, too. maybe he doesn't have a house phone, having both is expensive. i don't know.. it could be lots of things, so don't lose hope yet if he said he wanted to go both days over the weekend, it definitely sounds like he's interested. maybe he had a 'prior obligation' on sunday night, which was why he wanted to go on saturday at first? and then he just honestly forgot to call, or got stuck somewhere and didn't have access to a phone... like 8foot said, guys do forget to ring. have you spoken to him yet? i hope everything gets cleared up and works out for you. good luck!
thanks so much you guys I saw him today, gave him shit, he felt bad, said he forgot but it was so cold and rainy sunday we couldn't have gone to the drum circle anyway. we ended up hanging out, and I asked if he wanted to see a movie with me saturday, he said yes, so we'll see if he remembers and calls, lol. I think I'm kinda over it him, but we'll see how it turns out, life is ever so strange oh, lawngirl, he said the phone is getting fixed saturday, apperantly he lost it or something, and was supposed to get a new one last week.
Yeah he sounds like he is only so-so into this whole thing. Its probably best you are kinda over him. But hey, at least maybe you two could end up friends right?
exactly, friends is always best I figure, I give up on romance entirely... hey October moon, I live in north hollywood too! Where abouts are you sister?
