Are you recieving enough foreplay ?

The purpose of this poll is to find out how long most men spend on foreplay, what I mean by foreplay is teasing, kissing, and caressing.

By teasing I mean saying saying and doing things that your partner or bf finds erotic during the week.

Kissing I feel is so important part of foreplay that can really put a zing in your sex life.

Caressing a womens body is good way of getting her wet and also makes her relax, I personally spend a lot of time on caressing a women, this should be part of your love making practice, before you even think about penetrating your girl or womens vagina.

Caressing, kissing, licking and nibbling, are also important prior to penetration, which should not begin until a women or girl are dripping wet.

I'm curious to know how long the average session of sex lasts you ?

 

I love foreplay with my woman. We've had just straight sex (just penetration, nothing else) quickies, etc, but the sex just doesn't compare (at least for me) if there isn't some great foreplay happening before it. Like it's still good, but I don't get that same rush and those wonderful intense feelings if there hasn't been anything building towards the actual penetration.

Lately, I've been putting much more effort into foreplay and getting my girlfriend interested in having sex. She gets really tired after working all day (along with everything else in our personal lives) so it's kind of understandable she wants a good fucking and that's it. But I haven't been giving her that option lately and she's been loving it. Our foreplay is so good sometimes we don't even get to actual sex, but it doesn't really matter because of how great everything else was.

To be honest, I'm actually enjoying the foreplay more than the actual sex because I can just go for hours pleasuring her and not having to worry about it ending. I mean, the second you start penetrating your woman anywhere it's going to come to end somewhat relatively soon. But I can spend hours just talking to her, running my fingers through her hair, rubbing lotion on her and massaging her whole body, kissing and sucking between her inner thighs, fingering her and orally pleasuring her until she begs me to fuck her. Probably my favorite sexual activity with her out of everything possible, is just having my face between her legs and feeling her get wet in my mouth and moan in ecstasy.

 

Excellent dude !!!

Gee in no time at all you'll have a nympho on your hands !!!

Then you'll be like me, trying to beat them off with a stick !!!

It's subtle at first, you wake feeling so tired, your losing weight, your cock is getting thicker then you relalise that you have come full circle, from not getting any to getting too much !

I prefer the latter though !

Just wait until you get her to real orgasm, and your both drenched in sweat ...

 

Definitely more than 20 minutes. You can never have enough foreplay.

 

Not enough !!! Come on - make it an hour at least - I dare you to !! :tongue:

 

He he :& :jester:

 

I find most men rush it. They feel there girlfriend getting wet and stop then, which TBH sucks.

 

Indeed. Foreplay should be enjoyed by both parties, not rushed so you can "move on" to sex. I could spend forever toying around, rubbing and sucking nipples ALONE (don't get me started on clits), just spending time playing with my lover and vice-versa, before we got to the actual sex....I doubt I'd be allowed to do it forever, but that's not my point. Anyways, yeah, foreplay should never be rushed. It should be cherished, like sex.


To answer the question....no. I don't get enough or even close. I'm single.

 

I voted 5-20 minutes, bc it usually doesn't go over 20, but that's okay, because he's REALLY good at what he does. Usually I'm the one who puts a stop to it and screams "fuck me NOW!" Haha...

 

foreplay is great - sometimes we go on for an hour or two before getting down to sex, other times, like today we were having a quickie before she left for work- no foreplay whatsoever, it was straight old, knickers off, zip down, up against the wall quick, sweaty & frantic,

 

I agree, women should be begging for you to put it in !

Nothing like a good pussy tease to get the juices flowing, then I might say "Do you love me ? - " or "Will you respect me in the morning ? -" he he he

I often laugh to myself about it - some guys wonder why they can't get sex, how dumb they are, women I believe are not that much different to men, if you make sex pleasurable for them they will want it all the time.

My partner once tried to manipulate me by saying well I won't come over friday if you don't ... - well I said ok your the boss (with a smile) !!!

Guess who turned up on Friday for ... he he he

It's all good I guess, she leaves feeling happy and refreshed the next day.

 

Usually I don't go over 20 minutes cause that is usually when my girl will say "fuck me already" or "fuck me now".

 

I think the first time I ever had sex we did foreplay for like an hour and I thought he was never going to stop. It's not that I like to rush sex, but when it's time, it's time. And like someone else said if they're good at it, it wont take that long if they know your body well.

 

I'm the same way he is/was. Well, when it comes to foreplay. Not really a good habit, I guess, but sex and foreplay are just as much about communication as they are physical pleasure. I think that 15 minutes is a good cut-off time, because while fun, I can see why the receiver of foreplay would want to move on to the sex after a while. I'm just as much about giving as I am getting, really......it's just hard for a lot of us dudes to stop once we start . It's like a damn drug! I dunno if it's bad or good that I hold the female form in such high regard. I guess both. Funny how thinks work that way

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the obvious answer of course is that it varies depending on the mood /circumstances/location. And i d suggest that foreplay doesnt have to be physical. On one occasion i met someone anonymously from a chat room, where all our cyber foreplay had been very intense and drawn out, so when we actually physically met we had agreed i would aproach her from behind, (in a hotel room where she was waiting) and penetrate her silently and unseen. For both of us this was an incredibly erotic experience and as such there was no foreplay.

 

Some people are happy with steak and chips every night of there lives, not me I want to experience passionate exciting sex.

I have read about other peoples porno sex where some women are complaining about painful sex and vaginal tearing "again".

I don't want to be lulled into degrading and aberrated sex that is both gross, degrading and repulsive.

I've heard about some men who force felatio on their GFs, where the guy is fucking the girls head - that's not making love to a women !!

I often wondered why quite a few women are both bi or lesbian, its most probably because the sex they are getting is inadequate or they have suffered a sexual trauma.

I had a GF that cried her eyes out and then told me it was the first time she had had an orgasm.

I've never had a girl/women that told me to stop the foreplay when I'm sure they could have, if the foreplay is ineffective your doing something wrong.

The only way I can see a women not wanting foreplay is your technique is sloppy, amateurish and totally ineffective.

 

Orgasm cancelled due to lack of interest.

 

umm, marry me?

 

Well I must say Panther has the right attitude, in time he will understand what I mean by pleasuring a women.

It's a win-win situation.

Get what you want by giving women what they want.

It's so simple.

Then you'll feel so happy and wonderful and understand that life can be so fullfilling and fantastic.

And its all free.