Are you able to separate love from lust?

My Wife are a senior couple. We’ve been together a long time. We truly love each other and do everything together. We are very sexual 3 times weekly. After all the years together, we now have sex for the sex and “health benefits”. We know that when we fuck it is to cum and orgasm. Just pure lust. Again we love to have sex in all it’s forms, but rarely for love. Women and men do you have sex or lust. What age group are you in? Married/singe/partnered?

 

I'm as an age group I'm 24 but prefer older for sex. Single. I can honestly say I have sex for sex and nothing more. Maby one day way in the future that will change but not until I get to where I want to be in life. So for now I have sex for just fulfilling what I need and want and that's pretty much it.

 

Yes, I do agree with you that we all go through phases in our life, but when it gets down to it, it is a bit primal. As I said it is nice to find someone that understands and can separate sexual needs from a relationship. I have that with my wife. She love to fuck and knows what to get out of it. We do it for our health needs at least 3 times weekly.

 

Well I have never felt a closeness to someone just because of sex. But I know I need it so it's just how it is right now.

 

We are a couple that's been together 22 years. We have both still together but still know the importance of having both. It keeps everything fresh and exciting in a relationship. If not things can get stale. We figured out about 10 years ago that a relationship is more than sex. It's just a tiny part of it. So live life and have fun.

 

Have to say if you ever see shy in person all you want to do is get primal with her.

 

I'm 29 and my husband is 32. We have sex of course and for me there's varying degrees of lust involved when we have sex but we also make love too. Perhaps it's an age thing but I'd miss making love and having that feeling of passion between us.
Ask me again in 30 years time and I might have a different answer for you.

 

Miamh3636, Thanks for sharing. There’s nothing wrong with romance. As I said, My wife and I really love each other. We share our whole life together. After many years we still talk about sex daily. It is just part of your daily conversation. It is very open discussion. We find out what we need from sex and how to set aside time for it. We make it a priority. We are older, and recognize the health benefits.
If you don’t talk sex daily, you should!

 

My wife and i have been married for two years now and we share everything with one another, But when coming to sex ,and lust if a couple can cuddle after having sex for awhile , Then in my opinion it is love not just lust ,,

 

Agree. We usually cuddle after. But all day we discuss and play time during the day is based on a build up to sex. Some of the conversation is short and that is when a quickie is done.
My wife knows when I need sex, because we live a secluded nudist life style. No children. It’s all about communications and the health benefits of sex. She is a old school “take care of her man” person. We do everything together.
I know when she needs sex as well. She doesn’t always require penetration, but loves me to do oral on her. I will always stop what I am doing to take care of her needs. We are both in our sixties.

 

My wife and i always know when the other one need to make love we could say we ready one another`s mind so to speak I am able to see in her eyes when she wants it ,,

 

Yes I love my wife but I tell her it is time for penis maintanance because I saw this girl on the beach that I lusted after. Then she asks me to tell her about her. And she does the same. Sex is like eating food, we need both on occasion.

 

Yes, sex is like a food. I am very lucky to have a wife that understands the health benefits of sex and feds me well.
For both of us. After all these years together she still is intrigued by my cumming and knows what it does for me. Just like exercise. Again we love each other, but for us, sex gets down to orgasms for her and cumming for me. We both need it and want it. It’s that simple.

 

For me love is a quality restaurant and lust is fast food. I do alot of take out.

 

Don't love specifically. Be LOVE therefore you cannot hate for any reason at all. When it comes to a partner the love remains equal, you just become more familiar with them. Now that you know each other well, suck and fuck the hell out of each other while discussing all you other escapades.

 

I can but my wife, and other women I've known, have difficulty with it. I've often said that for men, 'Love' is a verb and , for women, 'Love' is a noun.