I've noticed, that in straight porn at least (the only one I see), men's nipples and also a finger on their ass is almost totally ignored. However, when I have met in intimacy with experienced and uninhibited women they resort to sucking my nipples in order to get me arousal and also frequently resort to touching my anal area and even inserting their finger, without even asking, as if she is assuming that what she does will be pleasurable. So my question is, certainly for everyone but especially for the women of this forum who are well experienced (Jenna, Rana, Lena...), do you use those resources or leave them aside because do you assume that most heterosexual men do not like those practices?
This is a great question with the answer already presented. In porn, the producers know fucking the hot body with a large cock sells. They don't give a shit how much the woman stimulates the man. It's about seeing the woman fucked that sells. If you look at amateur porn such as cuckold husbands videoing wives fucking other men you'll see more of the male stimulation that has been suggested. In real life most men love that a woman will lick and suck the nipple. Play with the anus and find the prostrate. Experienced women know what to do to really charge up the male body and they love getting the response they are after. There's no assumptions. They really know and are not afraid of going there if allowed.
Consider yourself lucky. Attitudes towards anal seem to be changing for it to be more acceptable these days although yeah, some men might be so willing to go along with it without permission first.
While our idea of what’s “normal” will very from person to person I think there are also some fairly universal dynamics. Years ago being a young married man I enjoyed heterosexual sex with my wife exclusively. She would finger my ass and on occasion tease it with a dildo. On one occasion she slipped it into my ass. Wow! I had no idea I would like it as much as I did. I think if we will allow ourselves we recognize these areas of our bodies as erogenous zones, regardless of our sexual orientation.
How did I miss this and I’m not a great on to consult on this…I’m basically what you would see in porn, but without the cameras. In group settings, with multiple men, it’s hard to do anal play or lick nipples when there is a cock in my throat. Definitely ask Rana or Lena!
Another issue is not all men experience pleasure from their nipples or anal Nothing to do with not trying
i have also enjoy getting fingered. I knew I would like it and by reacting when my wife touched my anus she started to explore deeper. That was the beginning of some good times. A blow job and fingering my prostate makes me weak in the knees. So glad to discover this. Back to porn: when searching porn I always look for older couples prostate massage. Amateurs have some great prostate massage videos
My former #2 poly wife would have to peel me off the ceiling or hold me down to keep me from escaping as she sucked the shit out of my nipples and almost bit one off - I still have her teeth marks. S.he had no problem shoving a finger or two in my ass while working the rest of me over with her mouth. In the early days of our relationship she told me, "Once I find where all your buttons are, I will own you!" She found them. All of them and a couple I didn't know I had.
I alway enjoyed when my wife did anal play, as for nipples, we did did do “fire & ice “ with candles and ice cubes but that’s a story for another day lol
Talking with a friend of mine who is also compatriot and lived a long time in Japan, she told me that Japanese men seemed to her to be obsessed with boobies. The worst for her was that Japanese men expected her to have the same obsession with their nipples. She found that strange (to say the least). Well... both she and I are from Argentina, so we have the same culture, but I didn't find it strange, however, because as I have said, I have encountered several women who sucked on my nipples without me even asking them to.
