Are men with bigger penis more dominant ?

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  1. Jack T

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    Hello , I m a 25 yrs old male with a 5.2 " penis: From the country and culture where I from doesn't have a open sex life: I had this question in my mind so some time:
    For me, I m romantic and whenever I m thinking about my Girl I feel love and compassionate toward her rather than raw sexual feeling: I meant, we have sexual feeling for each other but some of men I know who are "bigger" than me, don't seem to have those kind of feelings toward their girls; They just want a dominant sex toward their partner:
    So i wonder is Men with bigger penises are more sexual toward their partner while average or small penis people like me feel love (maybe because we can't be like that big guy)? What your thoughts on that?
    [ Sorry for my english ]
     
  2. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    I'm going to make a generalization based on what I've heard women say. Most of the women I've known who have been with bigger guys said they sucked at sex. They think that all they have to know/have to have to be a good lover is a big dick so they really don't pay attention to the woman wants/needs.

    C/S,
    Rev J
     
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  3. Jack T

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    Well for women, they don't always want sex then:
     
  4. Goander

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    I don't think I am dominant :tonguewink:
     
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  5. Bryce

    Bryce A nut busting poster is a happy poster!

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    No. In fact, in my limited experience, it seems that many guys with smaller penises are sometimes more aggressive and dominant acting. Perhaps because they are over compensating. I am fairly well endowed, but I would not consider myself as the dominant personality in my current relationship.
     
  6. Tonynewyork6969

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    My gal has had over one hundred cocks fuck her pussy. She said that while she’s enjoyed tremendously those huge cocks stuffing her, the biggest ones had the biggest egos and were the worst lovers.
     
  7. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    My penis is about 5 inches but I tend to be more dominant in a relationship, only in a very gentle way. I like to lead, but in a way so that my partner might even think that she's the one leading me. But the moment I notice I'm being regarded with carelessness, I show my alpha side and make sure she understands where I stand. Really, the dick size doesn't matter.
     
  8. Italy185

    Italy185 Straight male... here to make friends

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    I've been told mine is big but I'm only dominant when that's what they want... it's not grab them and bottom out on every stroke, unless that's what they want...
    I love it soft and sensual as much as hard and deep...
    The generalization I'll make is I've never had a woman say I didn't know how to use it or they wish it was two or three inches shorter and less thick... I've had a bunch of women tell me the only time they say Size Doesn't Matter when all things like skill are equal is when they are with somebody that does not have any size...
     
  9. bigredinmass

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    I'm above average and what I try to be is what my partner wants me to be. So I can be dominant and aggressive or hell even submissive. Depends on the person and situation. But it's all good...
     
  10. Louiszm

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    If we could relate dominance to aggression, then Testosterone would be the key, hence BALL SIZE would be the determinant.
     
  11. ArtyB

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    I feel dominant when I have fucked a small woman, huge cock in a little ass. Total control especially when she is moaning and shouting
     
  12. patmandu22

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    Agree. I know my cock is thicker and longer than average for a Caucasian but my wife totally wears the pants in my family.
     
  13. Niamh2636

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    I've had the pleasure of various guys, some smaller, a couple bigger but most what one would call average in size.

    It's been the average guys that have proven to be more dominant in my experience.
    But not having that many smaller or bigger guys to compare with kind of makes my answer irrelevant as it's hardly a level playing field to make comparisons on.
     
  14. NudistGal

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    Size queen here! I wouldn't say the size of the penis influences most stable men. It's all about personality, not their size.
     
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  15. jimandjan

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    I've seen a couple of guys with bigger penis, get their feelings hurt, when someone shows them up.
     
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  16. ArtyB

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    I have been insulted it hurts when you are called a freak or it is too big fuck, stupid remarks and women have enjoyed having sex with me, and my wife is very happy with a well endowed husband
     
  17. Barry Mandelay

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    Nothing to worry about. Penile size has little effect on male attractiveness to women. It has been ingrained into society that penile size symbolizes qualities such as virility, fertility, strength, ability, and courage. This tends us to believe the larger a penis is the more aggressive the owner of it is. There is nothing further from the truth than this notion. Aggressiveness in a man is formed from many different things contributing to it. Hormones or lack there of, derived personality, and stressors, are all part of a male make up to the level of aggression he has with in him. Being aggressive or not in bed has nothing to do with the size of a penis.

    A study recently done used an approach that avoided many pitfalls on measuring a woman's reaction towards sexual attractiveness. They created CGI male figures with variable penis length, body height, and shoulder-to-hip ratios. Only 6% of the 100 plus women selected the larger penis size for mating with. 5% of the women selected the taller figures. The remaining women, a whopping 79%, selected shoulder-to-hip ratio, or broad shoulders with narrow waist and hips, as the most attractive sexually. The message here regarding female choice is that body-building might be a far better investment than penis enlargement.

    Now then, according to Medical News Today, the average size of a flaccid penis is between 2.8 and 3.9 inches, while it might reach between 4.7 and 6.3 inches when erect. It seems the OP is right in the middle with size. Therefore, it is not the size of his penis, but the way he uses it that brings joy to his partner. Women feed on the importance of love, connection and intimacy before, during and after you have sex. All the things that make his partner crazy about him are not related to his penis size, or even sex for that matter. Be honest, be yourself, enjoy your girl the way you want to. Being romantic instead of aggressive is just fine. In fact she would rather you be that way.
     
  18. cindy94

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    In my experience I don't think it's related. I've been with aggressive guys of all sizes, the same with guys who weren't aggressive
     
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  19. ArtyB

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    I think it is about performance, it's no use having a big penis if you don't know how to perform with it. If I am told it feels big and amazing then that makes me feel good but not dominant
     
  20. centaur65

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    Its hard to say. I am a bit aggressive and dominant but also can be very gentle too. I'm six foot six and my penis is 8.85....yep 8 got it that specific lol
     

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