Are men really hornier than women?

If not, what is it that gives women the upper hand with sex? I wish I could get paid to have sex...

 

Don't we all...

 

Women have boobs, butts, pussies, legs, thighs...men just have big hard dicks and maybe muscles.

With that said, I think men OVERALL are hornier than women, hence the "men and women are different" lecture from the normals. But not all men are the same and not all women are the same.

 

Men have no legs?

 

So how does female anatomy make women hornier than men?


My answer to the thread. I think that every man and woman is unique in their sex drives, but as an overall consensus men's sex drives are higher when they are younger 18 - 20 something....and for women, our sex drives peak as we are older...for me it started when I turned 35 and has only gotten way worse, I am now 42. And even with that, I have met men of different ages with high sex drives.
If I were to vote, I would say men are more hornier, even though when I'm hormonal, I don't think anyone could beat me.

 

How do women have the upper hand with sex?

 

I said men are hornier than women.

 

men have the mating imperative.
The whole thing is geared towards an ejaculation: preferably on or in another person.

Women don't have that. Orgasms are wonderful, but they are not the totalitarity of sex/relationships. men of course in the end have the muscle, but women can control that by controlling the male need to have sex.

 

how don't they?

 

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Some women are definitely hornier than men.

 

I for one would not want to beat you. Do other things? Definitely, but not beat you.

 

i dont really think overall that either is hornier than the other, but i am 57 now and my wife is now 51 (met when she was a 27y/o virgin and i was 33) and all i can say is that even tho i get horny, i lose my desire very quickly until the next moment something triggers my horniness again.

my wife, well she is different, she still craves sex more as she gets older, and sometimes i feel guilty that i cant offer it back in return whenever she gets the urge.

 

Not that I know of

 

As far as I'm concerned, neither gender has the "upper hand." That relies on each separate couple. Not exactly sure what was meant by upper hand--the advantage, position of power? That award goes to whoever "cares least" in a sexual relationship--man, woman, goat, whatever.

 

I have yet to find a man that could keep up with me, since getting older i crave sex more

 

during adolescence it seems that boys are hornier (bare in mind adolescence ends in your 20's) because testosterone levels skyrocket, however with that said testosterone levels in women also sky rocket. Now there's a difference between sexual arousal and "horniness". Being horny is just another way of saying you want to fuck someone and cum in them, and in woman's case you want to get fucked, (caring less about the clit). This is vital to human reproduction, and men are always ready to reproduce; but women are only sometimes ready to reproduce. I often find that women are horny during ovulation, when they can give birth, but sexually aroused? Just like men, sexual arouses during intimacy. During a friday night it's hard not to be sexually aroused when you light up some incense and trade body heat while your lips are touching

 

In general I think men when younger are hornier then women who become hornier then men when getting older,,, that being said, in a relationship,,, it might depend on the two in it. I get turned on by my man but if no one is in my life for a while its not like I'd be sporting a hard on if I had something similar to a dink that would make it show.
Do I have to have it? Yes but I dont tbink it is sex I want, I want my man all over me giving me sex while I give it to him.

 

I keep hearing that men are hornier than women when younger, say 18, but then women become hornier than men when older, say 35. If that's the case then why do women get married around 28? Isn't that confining themselves? Why isn't it rampant knowledge in our culture that women at some point become hornier than men? Why aren't there gross out comedies a la American Pie about women wanting to get laid? Why isn't there more prostitution in the form of gigolos? Why is it when women cheat on their husbands they're skanks but when men cheat on their wives they're just being men or their wives weren't satisfying them enough? Why isn't there more porn geared towards older women? I'm skeptical.

 

I dont know all that but I will admit sex was good when I was younger but its amazing now. Did I learn lots over the years or am I just hornier then before? Dont know but I know with the right man I could do it every night and want to, in my 20s if it happened every night that would have been ok but it didnt bother me if it wasnt.

 

I think the key difference here is that most men crave variety whereas most women crave sex with the same man over and over again.