Any successful swinger relationships

Anybody have any that have last'd for years I'm in a open relationship right now and I could see us doing the swing thing just wondering

 

i'll be honest it hasn't been years for me and my husband but we do enjoy swapping partners with our friends every now and again. our favorite friends to play with ,however have been succesful swingers for 2+ years. it can be done but remember that there is always a chance for jealousy to creep up. talking in full detail about what your looking to do and what everyone considers acceptable can aleviate most worries. hope i was helpful to you

 

Two of my friends have been married for ten years this year.

 

My wife and I have been swinging for several years now with a pretty exclusive group of other married couples. We love it, and find it makes our marriage better. We simply think of it as recreational sex, as opposed to cheating or looking for something "better". We never do anything behind each other's backs. I'm sure it's not for everyone, but it works for us.

 

My husband and I have been together for years - and we've been swinging, off and on for about 4 or 5 years. We don't play really frequently, but we enjoy it once in a while.

We have no problems that originate from this part of our relationship. It's fun, that's why we do it. If it wasn't fun, we wouldn't.

We're going to a lifestyle halloween costume ball on Saturday. I can't wait!

 

My rather prudish wife, a born and raised Kansan, has told me repeatedly that there couldn't possibly be anything as kinky in Kansas as swapping. Goodness gracious girl.



Have fun and swap safely!

 

Thankfully, you wife is mistaken! There are a lot of swingers in Kansas!
And we've purchased all of our party favors and are ready to play safely, as always!

I'm SOOOO excited!

 

My wife and I have been together for over 30 years now and we tried swinging a few years ago. We were mostly with just one other couple but it was good and exciting and it brought us closer together. We have been away from it now for over 10 years - it was good but I can see where it wouldn't work for every couple.

 

I think that's the key. Deceit can ruin any relationship.

 

You didn't say it strongly enough m'dear.

Deceit will ruin every relationship.

 

Yah

 

My wife and I have swapped since 2000. We have a very dear couple that we still visit 600 miles away every year or so. Our marrige has never been better

 

I'm a one woman at a time man, but I've come across a number of people who tell me they feel comfortable swinging.

 

we swap now and then. always in the same room and it just turns into a orgy, good times

still married and going strong too =)

 

Looking for hippie women to live in the mountains of New Mexico.

We are (me) 55yo married
Wife 55yo
son 18yo

Live off the grid 8000 feet above sea level.
Large area few people.

No strings, not a commune, just looking for like minded people. We are survivalist and are ready.

Drop us a line at dansgrlf@aol.com

Thanks
Dude

 

hubby and i have been swinging for the last 5 years, and we have an amazing life together. It works for us.........most important thing is full on honesty!!!!!

 

Swinging definitely isn't for everybody. There's all sorts of women that I see all the time that I'd love to bang the crap out of, but my wife wouldn't like that too well at all, to the point where I'd say it would definitely end our marriage. Further, while I'd love to screw her sister (among others), I wouldn't be too happy about her hooking up with someone else. Sure, that's not fair and it's not right, but it is what it is.

So, if for example we were to hook up with my sister-in-law and her boyfriend, our marriage would definitely be over. No matter what anybody tells you, there's nothing that can truly be undone once it's been done. A girl could get pregnant, and she could have an abortion, but while the abortion would get rid of the pregnancy it isn't the same as undoing it because it doesn't change the fact that it happened. You could think swinging might be a great idea, but once it's been done you can't undo it and if it turns out to have been a bad move for you then that's just too bad, because you don't get any do-overs. You can try to deal with it and move on, but you can't undo it, and if it does damage to your relationship then it's damage that may never completely heal.

I'm not saying it won't work for you. There's people for whom it does work, but it's definitely not for everybody, and for every couple that it worked for there's probably several for whom it hasn't. I don't guess you'd be able to know until it's happened, but I'm just warning that if you go through with it and it turns out it doesn't work for your relationship, it's too late to go back on it.

 

We've been together 15 years and have been swinging for twelve of those years. We attend a swing club at least once a month and usually meet with swinger friends outside the club at least once a month also.
About every three months we participate in an organized gang bang. We are still very much in love and totally devoted to each other.

 

Welp, my husband and I have the completely honesty thing going for us, GREAT sex life just the two of us...now we're ready to have a relationship with another couple just for fun. Only thing is we can't/haven't really found anyone willing
Anxiously waiting for the day...

 

You'd really be surprised just how many active swingers are out there. Try looking to see if you have a local swingers club in your City, it's a great way to meet other couples even if you do not actually play at the club. We have over 20 other couples we have swapped with and have remained good friends with.