My best, longest lasting, current relationship of 23 years is with a girl I knew from my office for 3 years. We never got to know each other just a hi in passing at that time. Im a guy so yes as we passed each other I did take a peek at her ass and boobs but thats just a guy thing nothing personal. She was not attracted to me nor I to her. Then one day she asked me to help her with an involved case she had. She felt I had the most experience in her particular issue. So we worked together for a while and I witnessed her way of thinking and I liked it. She told me she was gathering used clothing and other items together to deliver to a Mexico Pueblo that had very poor people. I liked that about her and she asked I I wanted to go with her. I was kinda shocked and agreed but I had other plans that weekend. Long story short, I phoned her at home on a Saturday morning and said i enjoyed conversation with her and asked if she was interested in hanging out. She said, "come on over about 7 and I will have dinner made. That evening went well and I discovered so much more about her. Our discussion got pretty involved and touched on sex but not too much. Then I thanked her for dinner and went home. A week later we hung out again at her place and the conversation got into sex again. She is a real smart girl and has a way of finding out about things before actually doing it. She was an investigator at her job. Dick size is important to many women and she obviously did not want to have sex with me until she had more info about my dick size (which I realized later). It became obvious that she did not want to be disappointed and after sex if I had a small dick that wasn't up to her standards the relationship would probably be over and uncomfortable at the office. She let me know that most of her younger life she dated black men. ( a clue?) She is white and so am I. So she asked me if I masturbated much. That was yet another shocking area of discussion. Very strange and interesting date. I said I do but only if I don't have a friend at the moment. Then the big surprise question. She asked me if I wanted to masturbate right now. I turned red, and let the thought soak in and said, "how do you want to go about this, this is foreign to me on the second date. She said put your hand inside your pants and just do it. I said I think this should be mutual. After some discussion we both agreed. Then as I was unzipping and dropping my pants, she was lifting her long hippy type dress and put her hand in her panties. A few minutes later My pants and undies were off and her panties were off. We were across the room from each other facing each other both rubbing one out. Very strange but very exciting. Well she obviously saw the size of my dick and I guess she was pleased. We both had reached orgasm and cleaned up and shortly after I went home. The next date at her house we fucked like rabbits. That was 23 years ago. So the moral to this story is "I was attracted to her mind instead of her body." And based on that this is the best relationship I have ever had. The sex has been much better with many other girls but it is her mind that makes the sex with her the best i can ever be. Since we began the relationship with total honesty we continued being open with our past lives. She told me she was a call girl in Vegas and was bi-sexual and licked a lot of pussies in her life. I told her I was bi and had sex with a man hundreds of times before I had sex with my first girl friend. She asked me if I like sucking cock. I said I did but not enough to interfere with our relationship. She was so kind in that area that she shocked me once again. When we were living together I was talking to her on the phone on my way home. She began talking about sex. I thought she was horny and wanted to fuck when I got home. So I entered the house with a boner. She was wearing one of my suite which was way to big on her. She said close your eyes and get on your knees. i did. Then she unzipped her pants and exposed a strap on and said blow me bitch. I was shocked again. So I sucked it like I loved it which made her moan seriously getting hot to the point she began rubbing one out and she came hard. As she was cumming she squeezed the plunger and yogurt squirted in my mouth. Another shock. Until today we do these things and many more. If you have never tried a relationship based on brain and not only a cute camel toe or perfect ass, give it a try it worked for me.
A sapiosexual is someone that is sexually and mentally turned on by smart people. Sapiosexuals are aroused by intelligence.
