This is Naughtynewbie's wife, we don't have sex all day long on the weekends, we go into our room periodically while the kids are preoccupied and have our own playtime... No harm done. We don't pawn our children off onto a nanny. I'm a fulltime stay at home mother, my kids are my life, as well as my husband. We spend our weekends with our kids but we also find time for us, we've learned how to balance out time for one another and it not effect anyone (our kids) in negative way. But I guess I will chime in on the topic while I'm here, When my husband and I first got together my sex drive was in full swing, after about 3 years it dropped dramatically, I had no libido. We had sex once a week probably, then this past year (I'm now 26) my sex drive is the highest it's ever been. I can hardly go a night without it. Instead of having "sex nights" we have "break nights".. which there have only been maybe 2 or 3. Oh, and since things often get misinterpreted via cyber world, No pun intended in any of my above post. I know this is just a forum but the last thing I want, anywhere, is to be told I'm a bad parent.. especially when the people telling it have no right to do so considering they no nothing of our lives. So, just wanted to let you know, no attitude in my above post.