Any hope for big guys?

I'm a pretty big guy, 6'1" 300lbs. I'm starting to lose faith in these high school girls because they're all so shallow, and the one girl who's ever had interest in me, I couldn't have an intelligent conversation with. So the question is, is there any hope for me?

P.S. any other big guys with success stories are very welcome.

 

Yeah. Learn to rap.

 

I tried the big and rich approach, but I hate that capitolistic love.

 

well... there's most definitely hope when you get out of highschool.. i think a lot of girls are more attracted to smaller guys when they're still in school. big guys can be intimidating. but, many women are attracted to bigger guys

 

lower your standards.

 

Your a really big guy... Ummm good luck. Find a girl whos not shallow, maybe a big girl, I don't know.

 

Well that's helpful! Thank you!

 

High school aged kids are usually pretty shallow, because they have limited experiences in life. I'm not saying ALL... I don't need hate mail, I just mean that the typical teenager is out for themselves, and hasn't figured out who they are yet. So, they are finding that out. But, as you get older you'll find people your age become more aware of how the world works depending on how they perceive it.

Ok, I'm tired, but the moral of the story is... don't worry about a measly 4 years of your life. Get through school, have fun when you can and when you are ready to join the real world, you'll have plenty of good options.

 

Hacker probably gave best advice so far.

 

Well, brother...It's all about attitude and charisma.


I'm 6'4" 290 lbs....I'm a fairly shy person, so I don't really get any attention from the opposite sex. (Not the GOOD kind of attention, anyway)

But, I know guys just as big and bigger, who get all kinds attention from the ladies. The difference in them and me? Positive attitude and confidence. So, if you put it out there, someone will bite.

Eh...that sounds silly now that I read it, but what the hell.

hope that helped!

 

Yeah, I guess I oughta wait til school's over. Only 1 more year! Well, 2.

 

Tigerlilly, please tell me where these girls are...I have yet to meet them.

ha ha ho

 

well... my mom was a skinny blonde with blue eyes when she married her "larger" husband.. who's probably about your size. she's a little bigger now, but still very attractive. so there's one example...

 

Someone mentioned looking for a bigger girl, and I couldn't agree more. Find someone who's been in the same position as you, commonground = good foundation for a relationship.

In high school, people seem to be very focused on appearences. But, there's a much bigger world out there and it certainly doesn't end at the walls of your school. Go out and get involved in your community. You'll meet more people, and even if you don't find yourself a "girlfriend", you'll probably make a few valuable friendships in the process...

Good luck.

 

Well I just have to say that my husband is about 200lbs (he is 5'9) So he is not too tall but he is definitly wide and I LOVE that. The bigger the better, imo.

 

you know, when i was in high school, i woulda DIED for ANYONE to want me. one of my biggest crushes was also one of the biggest boys there. maybe you're just looking in the wrong direction. there could very well be someone looking right at you.

 

at 5'9 and 250, i wasnt what most girls in high school wanted, because they all wanted boys. As a man, I fill out and women like it.

My wife always dated skinny, hairless guys, but now she wouldnt have one,
and something about large shoulders and a thick chest make women
just want to cuddle into you and feel safe.

 

exactly.

 

so if I got out from in front of this pc....

 

Im likin' you more and more Crummy!