Any guys ever experience this?

I went into the grocery store today, and walked by the DVD rack. Then my eyes caught a glimps of a tall pretty girl. I saw her from behind, so I went around the DVD rack, and realized it was a guy. He was a stocker at the store. His hair came down between his shoulder blades and was straight - no pony tail or anything. And then I noticed his face. It was really beautiful. Sometimes if I saw a guy with long hair, I would laugh to myself and think 'girl'. But this guy had me thinking 'woah'. I consider myself straight, and am always noticing pretty girls. I never see anything attractive about a guy, although shemales do turn me on. So I guess it's the really feminin guys who do it for me. No offense to gays, but the fruity gay people turn my stomach. The ones whose voice is dripping with the essense of gayness. And watching guys kiss has always seemed sick.

Well I didn't want to be noticed checking this guy out, so I went on with my shopping. But I noticed his work took him back and forth at the back of the store, so I did most of my shopping back there. His hair was really pretty. And the way it framed his face was so beautiful. And omg... his face was gorgeous! I really wanted to kiss him. And I'm thinking OMG - I'm having serious sexual thoughts about this guy. But I let myself go on fantasizing about him.... going back and forth, trying not to be too conspicuous as I checked him out.

I wondered if he was gay, and wondered what he would say if I talked to him about my attraction to him. I could call the store and ask for him, so he wouldn't know who I am. I wondered about his dick... would I suck it? Yes. Would I let him suck mine? Oh hell yes. Would I let him butt fuck me? I've never been up for that, but I would if he wanted to. Then I imagined it. It sounded very tempting. I could imagine myself becoming his. As I walked around the store doing my shopping and thinking about him, I could feel myself hardening. I wanted to go somewhere and masturbate as I thought of him. He was just so beautiful. I thought he should have breast implants though. If he did, he would be perfect.

So these are my thoughts. Am I gay? I still feel no attraction what so ever to any other guys. But he definitely was making me horney.

 

yep, you're gay.

 

sounds gay to me also.

 

i think if someone experiences that, they need to learn to accept and be comfortable with they are indeed at least bi. gay is when you are ONLY eroticly stimulated by members of your own gender. bi means both. and there is nothing uncommon about it in nature. whatever anyone tells you to feel uptight and guilty about.

of course you also need to realize (or if you don't you'll probably find out rather quickly and painfully, if not fatally) that everyone who appears attractively like the opposite gender of what they are, is NOT neccessarily so inclined themselves.

bishies are NOT neccessarily themselves gay or even bi.

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Or maybe the guy just looked like a girl....

It doesn't instantly make him a homo.

 

Yeah but he said he wanted to suck his dick, and get fucked by him and wank to the thought, so I'd say its more than a guy looking like a girl.


As Themnax said, you might be bi. I suggest you suck a dick or fuck another guy. If you enjoy it, then congratulations, think of all the fun you will have

 

What the fuck kind of question is that?!! Other people dont get to decide if you are gay, thats on you. How fucking insecure do you have to be to actually post this thread? If you are gay, you'd probably be able to tell by your attraction to men. If you are "always noticing pretty girls," then you should know that makes you officially not gay!

 

dude its normal ive had man crushes and im confident enough to know that doesnt meen im gay or bi it just happens.

 

Wrong.

 

and you're gay too.

 

No one is straight really, are they?... you should just be open to what you crave, who cares about labels. If you happen to fall for a guy even though you consider yourself straight then thats just that. It happens. And if you just think one guy is hot then thats just that, whatever... why does it matter? Just be open with yourself and go with the flow.

 

MrStiffy, yea your either gay or most definetly curious. Im straight as hell, but I've come across kool pics of celebs guys or plain guys in magazines and thought, damn he is pretty cute or damn kool pic. But i would never want to suck them or get f'd in the ass. I think your curious

 

I think you're bi. Personally I know I'm straight and have never fantasized about a male, any form of sexual contact with another male is definitely not in my gameplan. I do however think some males look cool/I can see where they have a beautiful face. There's a difference, but I think you need to figure out on your own if you're bi or not.

This sentence alone leads screams bi though: "I wondered about his dick... would I suck it? Yes. Would I let him suck mine? Oh hell yes. Would I let him butt fuck me? I've never been up for that, but I would if he wanted to. Then I imagined it. It sounded very tempting."

Also it could be a random fantasy. Whether or not you choose to act on them has a big impact on the whole ordeal. Being open feels way better than bottling things up most of the time though.

 

I am sorry that you have to ask an internet forum if you are gay or not...

 

It was shocking at first to have these feelings. I am not gay. Like NorCaliGreenFiend so eloquently says, I am still noticing pretty girls so I'm not gay. And I am not noticing other guys in any way sexual, at all. But I did have those feelings. Maybe it's because he was so feminine looking. And yes Arlandis. I did talk about sucking his dick, and getting fucked by him. His feminine appearance is beautiful, yet I know he's a he. So my fantasies of him would include his dick. themnax may have said the ugly truth when he says I must be bi to some extent. I'll have to watch myself around feminine guys I guess. ugh

 

Dude as i said before its normal. as to all the haters... i hate homophobes because the dont realise how easy it is tho be gay. its just chance

 

Everybody has a same sex attraction sometimes. It doesn't make you gay, it just means if someone is that profoundly attractive you can't help but appreciate it.

 

I think you're bi, nothing wrong with that man.

 

It's not binary or even tertiary, it's more like the Ph scale.

 

I guess it's only as 'gay' as you let it be. Dont sweat it.