Don't assume because the anal sex is rough they are not enjoying themselves. Some women enjoy rough slightly painful anal, some don't, it's personal preference. I have been with a woman in my personal life who like to get their ass wrecked during anal. She said that she liked having a sore ass all day because it made her feel naughty and sexy because it reminded her she had her ass drilled earlier that day. So don't assume because it's painful it's not enjoyable after all people are in to s & m. But if you're not into stuff like that look up soft core porn.
I agree, soft porn just plain sucks. You could look up anal porn where the woman orgasm or squirt. I had a cool dvd in high school called "assgasms" and they showed all these women having these powerful orgasm while getting plowed up the ass, it was great. Look for something like that. If they are orgasming there's a good chance they enjoy it. As The Backdoor Man said porn is male centered, so maybe something like this may be more to your liking: http://www.analforwomen.com/ It's anal porn created by women showing women enjoying anal.
Anything by Tristan Taormino. Me and my fiancee especially like "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women." Check out www.puckerup.com Peace Out, Rev J
Old European porn from a company called Pr!vate is pretty reliable. V!ntage Erotica Forums will have some I believe.
I've been meaning to get back to you. After googleing the video for free I've come to the conclusion you're right. Peace Out, Rev J
I don't like a lot of the new American porn. It is very Misogynistic. I can imaging spitting on then choking half of my old g/f's before I blew in their face - POW! my head v's the door frame. At least in Europorn the girls smile a bit as they are triple anally penetrated. Mostly.