anonymous sex?

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by heywood floyd, Sep 17, 2007.

  1. heywood floyd

    heywood floyd Banned

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    Has anyone here ever hooked up with someone without really knowing them or ever getting to know them? Like maybe over the Internet or something? What was it like?
     
  2. tworupeesoul

    tworupeesoul Member

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    yeah..several times.. in fact here in India it is the only way!!!

    anonymity rules supereme!!
    its okay most of the times and I always try to make the best outta it, knowing that the chances of seeing this person again are very rare.
    Though ours is a small town, there is a large influx of a lot of people from other towns so its all cool
    just remember to play safe!
     
  3. limetree

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    not me, i dont think i could do that. the thought of it turns me on, but the regret would be too much. it wouldnt be worth it for me
     
  4. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    i try to avoid that.
     
  5. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

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    no thanks.
     
  6. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Anonymous sex is required by men that need anonymity, which usually means married to a woman, in metros areas anyway


    In rural areas options are limited
     
  7. whichaxe

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    I've done the hookup thing... but never completely anonymous. Always take the time to get to know some meaningful stuff about your partner for the evening, even if it is a wham-bam-thank you ma'am thing.
     
  8. heywood floyd

    heywood floyd Banned

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    Actually, I was considering it, but then I learned that the majority of new HIV infections taking place are due to people hooking up over the Internet, and that more people get HIV through anal intercourse than intravenous drugs and basically all other kinds of sex combined.
     
  9. *Andy*

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    Not my thing at all. I'd far prefer to have sexual contact with someone who I loved rather than a random.
     
  10. Sherlock Holmes

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    I don't think I could ever just hook up with someone that I didn't know. For me, it has to be in a loving relationship.

    The only way I'd do that is if I have lost all my inhibitions due to being VERY drunk... which actually happened lately...

    Thank goodness the other guy was too drunk to take me seriously.
     
  11. PinkTighs

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    I've thought about doing this. But I'm the type of gay that loves to cuddle (or go to sleep) after sex, with whom ever I did it with right next to me. I'd feel like crap if I did. Ya dig?
     
  12. mrpwonder

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    I have done this very often. I enjoy it alot. I'm always safe...
     
  13. PresidentialScandal

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  14. amp7325

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    Not really, no. I've hooked up with someone and then had him not call me or try to contact me in any way at all, but that was him being an asshole, not a desire for an anonymous hookup.

    So, no.
     
  15. steph_r

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    I haven't, cos i'm in a relationship.
    However if I was single, I don't think i'd be against the idea. As long as I wasn't putting myself in a ridiculously dangerous situation or something.
     
  16. hailtothekingbaby

    hailtothekingbaby Yowzers!

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    Never. I still believe in such apparently old-fashioned ideas of love and trust.

    Unless, indeed, someone got me really drunk. That's the only way to get me confident enough to consider sex at all.

    :(
     
  17. cracker531

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    yeah. it's the only way i've hooked up with guys...

    looking back on the several encounters i've had with guys, some of them i'm really, really ashamed of. actually, i'm ashamed that i did it at all...i thought i was being safe but when it comes down to it i don't think i was...the guys said they were clean (the ones i can remember) but i don't really know for sure. i've been planning on getting tested and i really should but i haven't gotten around to it yet :[
     
  18. mushie18

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    get tested NOW!
     
  19. Fastswitch

    Fastswitch Visitor

    You heard him..NOW!! (seriously, prayerfully, mechanically - whatever it takes) NOW!!
     
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