Anal to bf! Help!

Discussion in 'Oral and Anal Sex' started by CuriousGirl015, Jul 10, 2013.

  1. I want to try Anal with my bf and he said to try with my finger first. The first time he said my nail hurt so I cut it. He still says it hurts cuz of it.. I need moral and advice.. HELP
  2. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

    What moral questions are you referring to? I would suggest using small toys first to get the hang of it. Just make sure you use something that has a flange on the end.
  3. marshmarsh47

    marshmarsh47 Guest

    Communication is vital. If he's hesitant about it, ask him why that is. Is he fearful of the implications it may have on his sexuality? If so, he should realise that receiving anal pleasure, even as a heterosexual male, is perfectly acceptable, and much more commonly practised than people think.

    If it's simply a discomfort issue, assess your technique. Are you using lots of lubricant? What exactly are you doing with your finger?
  4. Tuttle

    Tuttle Member

    Not as in the moment or sexy, but gloves or finger cots can help with discomfort caused by fingernails.
  5. Quoth the Raven

    Quoth the Raven RaveIan

    This. Even if your nails are trimmed and filed it can still be painful.
  6. pimping10133

    pimping10133 Member

    Well like they said get small toys. Also go to and check it out they have DVD for male anal play

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