I'll speak for my wife just because she is not a registered member. She used to like it deep but now that I have a Prince Albert she prefers thrusting.
Both, but it takes time to go deep. I think the reason so many women probably never want to give anal a second chance is because the guy just doesn't know what the heck he is doing. Things need to start slow, gentle, AND shallow. When the muscles begin to relax, then he can go deeper and deeper...but not until I'm ready. The best thing is for the woman to control the depth and speed until she is ready to relinquish control.
I'll answer for my wife also as she is too shy to post here. Pretty much what my wife prefers is what doregirl said above. Start out slow and not balls deep just yet. Wifey says that going too deep prevents her from cumming. Apparently I hit something way up there that causes a slight bit of pain which distracts her from attaining the Big O. But she doesn't like just dipping the tip in & out either when she is on the path to orgasm. She just likes me to take slow and steady strokes. When she gets up to the edge of her orgasm she asks me to hold still while she cums. This has an added advantage for me because holding still allows me to feel the slight rectal contractions of her cumming. After she has couple cums she lets me cut loose - pop the head in & out, big deep thrusts - whatever. We play a little game where I ask her if she wants me to cum deep inside or cum on her gaping asshole, saving a few drops for the inside. I like either answer.
Verrrry deep…. slow, then increasing speed…. am i right, flybigirl? Ooh, Master should be home soon! Thanks for the inspiration
but how deep is "deep" like if your man is pretty well hung (say 8") how much are you going to take from that, and how do you control how deep he "thrusts" it into you. some prefer him lying on his back while she sits on his member so she controls it herself, but what about doggy style, do you just tell him when he is going in far enough. cheers
i don't 'tell' him anything in bed, derflapin (except what he subtly picks up on with that big brain of his). i joyfully receive what He is good enough to give me! Similarly, i certainly don't 'control' how deep He thrusts in me… eveything He does is perfect…. typically He might begin by rimming my ass, or perhaps kiss my kitten while finger-fucking my ass… when the time is right, he eases His Cock into my tight opening, and all is bliss… usually a slow buildup, then some deep long hard heaven! i wish similar joy for all who know enough to want it… paula
Thanks for the replies The purpose of starting this thread is what women enjoy most. For male it is definitely enjoyable thrusting at the mouth of anal ring. Because there is maximum tightness and hence friction. After anal ring there is hollow tube which do not hug cock like vagina
Hi all, using my husbands user name here. To answer the question one has to consider what the mood is. There are times when I want my husband to fuck me deep in the ass, other times I love to swallow his huge cock. He too loves a stiff cock working his man pussy so it all boils down to the mood and desires at the time. Mostly during nag the time we are home alone he is alway mostly naked and loves me to lick and suck his cock while we watch TV.
