Anal sex: may I not be deep enough?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by coffeescent, Dec 24, 2009.

  1. coffeescent

    coffeescent Member

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    Whenever I introduce a butt plug (or an actual pennis) in my anus it won't ever go any further than 5 inches. Not even forcing it (and this isn't really an option, since the pennis hitting against the rectum wall hurts like hell!).

    Does this happen to anyone else? Is it possible that I'm not deep enough? (I mean, that the 90 degree bend of the rectum is too close to the anus in my specific case)

    In porn movies men and women have HUGE dicks entirely inside them. How the hell do they do it? :eek: I know that these people have lots of practice, but are they also that deeper than me or what?! :confused:
     
  2. Triple Ace

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    I believe it's a combination of factors, like basketball. To be a good basketball player you have to practice and maybe have some natural talent, but also you need to physiologically be tall enough to compete at the national level. I don't care how much skills you have in b-ball, if you're 5'5" you're screwed.

    Same with porn, it's possible to take a huge object in your anus with practice, not every body is anatomically setup to do such.
     
  3. coffeescent

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    Thank you, Triple Ace.

    I believe you're right. Anal depth seems to vary from person to person.
    I've been fortunate that my ex-bf's had regular/smalish dicks.

    Damn, even with this I had to different from everybody else. :rolleyes: Both women and bi/gay men looking for horse-sized dicks while I'd like a bf with a small one :D
     
  4. s2lizard

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    Everyone is different. Practice will only do so much. Once your colon bends, there isnt much that you can do to change that! Im average sized and am able to completely bury my dick in my wifes asshole, but thats her! Who knows if Im right at the bend or several inches away? Guess it doesnt matter for us since I have nothing else to give. :D

    And, if it seems like it should be deeper, it is possible that there is shit blocking it. Not trying to be gross, just saying. This has happened with me and the wife before... Its like "Whoa, cant quite get all the way in!"

    In your case, do what you can and make the best of it.
     
  5. coffeescent

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    Thanks, s2lizard.

    I don't really want anal sex to be deeper. For me it's enough as it is. It's just that 5 inches might not be enough to please a partner with a bigger dick... :confused:
     
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    The people that are on porns are athletes so to speak. Don't compare yourself to them nor should "try" to imitate what you see. Go with what feels right for you. Your lover should understand and comply.

    In all the years of love making, only one woman asked me to do that...and I thought it was very very hot! Your future b/f should appreciate that.
     
  7. coffeescent

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    The thing is I'm a man, so a partner won't find my will to have anal intercourse that uncomon or altruistic :rolleyes: But yes, I've got to stick to my limitations. If a bf doesn't find 5" enough he's free to leave (well, and I can start by dating only a man whose penis is at most 6" :D)...

    But, just out of curiosity, would you guys have pleasure with anal sex if you couldn't shove it all in?
     
  8. Kumaji

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    Just be careful how deep or far you wish for... remember earlier this year, a dude was found at a barn somewhere in Kentucky. Turns out they were putting on amateur sex shows with animals and a horse ripped this guy a new stomach.

    I shoot adult content, btw, these folks can take a 10" penis balls deep... but they havent thought about being 55 and constantly farting or dripping...
    I have a friend who claims to have been a lover of James Brolin from the 60's, back in NYC...
    Great guy but farts when he walks and smells a little tart, rather unpleasant...
    So keep your butt tight and a little less will feel like a little more.
     
  9. coffeescent

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    Oh, don't worry, I'm not into zoophilia, neither am I into hardcore sex! I like to keep myself tight :eek:
    But yes, I have a very hard time trying to fathom why some guys (and gals) are into shoving baseball bats and huge bottles up their asses! They must have to wear diapers all the time :confused:

    Anyway, like I said, I don't want extremes. I was just a bit worried that a guy with a bigger penis might not feel pleasure not being able to use it all :eek:
    As for me, I'm not a size queen by no means, so I don't demand men to be well-endowed. Actually, I've always prefered them smaller! :rolleyes:
     
  10. sobebella

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    try (with a toy) diffrent angels, ajust it when needed, and find any curves, its doesnt just go straight | it should be more / curved, angled. just kinda toy around in there till you find the rest of the way :p
     
  11. coffeescent

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    Thanks, sobebella :)

    The issue is exactly the curve lol It keeps anything (be it a vibrator or a penis) to go beyond the 5 inches. It's not really a problem for me but more to a partner, since 5 inches give me pleasure. But hey, you know what? If it's his gun that might not fit my holster I should just let him be the one to worry about it, right? :D
     
  12. sobebella

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    true that, you guys have fun, im sure 5 inches is plenty for him too, hes feelin something or he wouldn't keep at it :p
     

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