anal sex:how dirty is it?

i was wondering how dirty anal sex actually is...is it enough for my girlfiend to go to the bathroom first, or does she need an enema every time? what is the best way to prepare for having anal sex in hopes of keeping it (my penis in particular) as clean as possible. Because I am all for it, and she is too, she is just a little concerned (and probably embarassed) about it being physically dirty ie getting shit on my penis. advice from those who have done it would be nice, but all and any suggestions are welcomed.

 

i have anal alot. dont use an enema. i use the bathroom before hand. shower etc.. before and after sex.. you can both shower. and sort of wash her behind.. and finger her with the warm water and make it a sexy time.


you could always use a condom.. my b/f doesnt.. there are times.. where there could be some waste product.. but hey.. its going in a place. where waste comes from.

 

Well put

 

i could have said ....poo poo

 

ehehehehehehehehe......poo poo.......ehehehehehehe

 

no your member will come out clean

 

Oh, you did not just say "member"!

Who says "MEMBER" outside of "Penthouse Forum"?!

-Jeffrey

 

It's always good to plan anal sex after showers.Yes,you want to be as clean as possible.It can be embarrassing but that's part of it you just hope all is well.
Going to the bathroom right before hand is good but no guarantee and using an enema all the time is not good but if anal sex is spaced out and done sparily and not everyday,then yes use the enema.The only sure way to be the cleanest.

 

it beats the alternative terms

 

If you shower regularly and don't have a shit right before, you should be ok. It's not hugely important, since you'll obviously be wearing a condom, right? It's better if you wash before you do analingus, though.

 

I'd actually be quite offended if someone wanted to rinse my ass out before sex. It's kind of a smear on yr hygeine, isn't it?

 

I have done a shower, and I nearly drowned giving head. "Fucking hell you reek, let's give you a hosing down" is one of my chat-up lines.

 

Meh. I've only given anal, not received, and I've never checked for poo. It's just unnecessary, especially if yr wearing a condom. That said, it's not something I'm a big fan of, oral is better on pretty much all fronts.

 

One of my pet peeves is pornos where they're switchin back every second from ass to coochie n back... I mean come onnnn...does any woman really want shit up her more female part? yeggggg.

 

Actually, you should always use a condom with anal sex. Keeps you from getting some nasty-ass infections.

Er, so to speak.

 

i prefer anal without a condom, it feels better to me....hey its my ass, i should know.

 

Condoms depend upon the couple.Some like it some don't.
Sorry to say that changing condoms when switching ass to front??????
Who in the hell will have time for all that?Don't think there'd be time for stopping and swapping unless it's partners!
LMAO
Hint guys....It's not good to switch off,that is the fastest way to get infections,with or without a condom!!!!

 

I would not reccomend defacating prior to being the receptive anal sex partner. I will only do it if I have already had my bowel movement, several hours ago, and it will be at least several hours before my next one. You don't want there to be any residue...

 

I don't wear a condom during anal, and it isn't usually messy. Each to their own, but like all forms of sex, it does feel better without a condom. If your partner is monogomous and std free, condom should be a personal preference. It is surprising how clean you come out.

Mark

 

I can't say I've done it, but I would certainly want a woman clean up there before I go plugging her ass. I don't want her taking a dump before we do that, then have her climb her shitty ass into bed and then get shit crumbs everywhere. That's fucking nasty.