My wife doesn't allow me to have anal sex but I do finger her ass only while she has her magic wand viberator on her clit . She has the most intense orgasms. What can I do to get my cock inside . Any suggestions are appreciated.
I say DON'T pressure her and respect that she doesn't want it. Be happy she let's your finger in. Maybe she'll change her mind in the future.
Keep on fingering her. Do it whenever she wants, and offer to do it other times. Over time she may want more. Try working up to a second finger (with her permission), etc., and gradually increasing the size she can comfortably fit.
First, are you very well endowed? A finger is about 3/4 inch across, you may be too scary to her to be let in the back door. If you want in, you might try getting some slimmer dildo or vibes and let her play alone (not with you in the room, actually alone) so she can experiment and find out of she likes bigger than your finger. Some people cannot loosen up enough for the second sphincter to relax sufficiently for bigger penetration. And she may also be a bit uncomfortable to experiment in front of you. Then, for some women, there is the threat of embarrassing mess. You might try it first in the shower with a good water based lube that reconstitutes with water. Water sex can be painful. Also, let her know a few days in advance that you want to try it (after she has had her experimentation and is good with it) on such and such day. It will give her time to change diet, clean herself out if that is what she wants. Anal porn stars are extremely clean inside, so no mess is ever seen. Be respectful, let her have your ass so she knows what to expect, and go slow. If your too well endowed, it may be off the table no matter what. Good luck,
