My girl has done anal before, but this is my first time. As the guy, penetrating, is there anything I should know? I'm pretty sure I'm going to hurt my gf, which really sucks, so I guess I just have to go slow and easy it in? Tips and suggestions would be good. Already got lube.
If you go slow enough and listen to her, it shouldn't hurt her. If she has done it before, she knows what it should feel like and if it is feeling good. You can even tell her to be very vocal with you to make you are more comfortable with doing it for the first time.
The anus curves frontwards (towards her vagina) so thats a good thing to remember when your trying to get it in. Im not a guy but i know how hard it is to insert something into my ass if it isnt pointed in the right direction. If shes on all fours point down, if shes on her back point up. That should also solve any problems she has with pain or discomfort.
Go easy, brother! This is crunch time ... You scare this squirrel away on the first try, she'll never come back for those nuts. Listen to her, use lots o' lube (KY, water-based stuff, no vaseline), and pull out slow. You have to make her want you back in there again. "You never get a second chance to make a first anal penetration." Or something like that.
ive also heard good thigns about silicone based lube for anal, just gotta make sure youa rent using it on silicone toys on her first
Heres a good instruction video on how it should go, http://www.youporn.com/watch/95018?user_choice=Enter Don't treat it like her pussy... you only have 1 shot at it... if it goes bad for her, you may not get it again... lol
No matter how bad I fuck it up, I'll get it again. Trust me I asked her if it's actually enjoyable for girls, she said "if its done right" Does this mean basically nice and slow so it's not hurting too much, what else is there? Rub her clit while i go in and out is all I can think of atm.
once shes "warmed up" and "stretched out" thats when it's best for her and you... getting to that point is everything... take your time, use lots of lube... make sure shes into it and well relaxed...
If she's done it before and wants to do it with you it seems likely she had a good experience before, or at least really wants to try it again. So, let her have plenty of control (unless she's a sub and is expecting to be mistreated - doesn't sound like it!) of how, when, where and you should be fine. Just remember to have plenty of lube on hand.
