Am I in trouble :/

Well, me and the gf are going to be having sex pretty soon (she talks about it quite a bit, which I don't mind at all).

I'm really worried though, cause I think I might be too big for her (not being arrogant or anything, but the height difference between us is quite huge).

She says if I'm too big I'll cause pain/bleeding, I REALLY don't wanna hurt my girl, I like her too much for that and as much as I'd love to make love to her, I don't want to do it at a price each time.

I'm 6'3, she's about a whole head shorter than me... if it matters I can tell you how big I am but I think that gives you enough of an idea from the height difference.

Guys/girls, from your experience, tell me, do I have much to be worried about?

Thank you.

 

Dude I've been in your position before.


I'm 6"1.

I once dated a girl 5"3

First off if they're asian they've already got a shallow vagina, look it up.

But if they're white, or black, the simple rule is to go every 5 inches equals 1 inch after 5 feet.

So if she's 5" she's good for 4 ( in ) if she's 5"5 she's good for 5 ( in ) if she's 5"10 she's good for 6 etc.

Remember you can't get your WHOLE dick in, usually you're leaving an inch or a half out.

Obviously some girls are tighter than others.

But if she's 5 to 5"5 you're looking at 4-5 inches in.

If you're 6 inches just do your job.

If you're 7 inches+ just leave some space.

 

if she's asian she's got a shallow vagina? don't look it up, you've got a female asian telling you thats not true.
and.

you wont break her...trust me. im petite...5'5 100lbs...and ive been with an 8inch.

 

I'm worried about this myself. I'm in a similar position. Though in my case, my girl isn't too short, but she's extremely tight. I really rather not hurt her, but from what I've heard if the guy takes things slowly (some fingering first and then penetrate gently) the pain is usually minimal.

 

you know where babies come from? yea..

 

Then you're special, just because you're an exception doesn't mean you're the rule.

It's scientific fact that an asian women's uterus is located lower, reason why its easier for an asian to give birth and why there are less miscarriages per capita for asians even though the medical technology isn't as advance.

Some asian chicks can take it but most can't.

That is why the average asian's man's dick is usually an inch shorter than most other races.

You wanted me to go into this much detail?

 

SERIOUSLY!!?? Ha ha ha.

OK-things stretch, understand? Height is irrelevant. Don't worry guys.

 

I'm 5'0" 99lbs and have had sex with someone with a 8 inch penis also. If he thrust all the way in he would bump my cervix which was generally painful, so he just didn't go all the way in.

Problem solved.

 

Shallow vagina? Jesus. I really do want to look that up.

Make sure she's good and wet - use lube if you're unsure - and then go really slowly and gently.

I love when people say "Of course she can take it - babies come out of there!" Yeah, they do, and it FUCKING HURTS. (From what I hear.) That's why I don't use babies to masturbate with.

 

"That's why I don't use babies to masturbate with"


LOL

 

Well, considering I'm still a virgin, yes, SERIOUSLY.

Thanks for all your thoughts people, getting her wet is absolutely no problem for me so that part is alright, I'll just take it really nice and slow with her.

 

update: we had sex, was still great, she was really tight, couldn't go all the way in though ;[

 

Well, it's good of you to think of your girlfriend's fears.

But since the correlation between height and penis length is not that strong, you might better tell us how big you are.

Moreover, as you know, the vagina is a very flexible organ and can accomodate the vast majority of cocks. I doubt you would happen to belong to the small percentile that's too big (cocks over 9 inches).

So if I were you, I wouldn't worry. Unless of course you have a cock longer than 9 inches.

When it comes to girth: a cock can't be thick enough, so no single cock on this planet has to worry about being too large in that respect.


On a final note, just to demonstrate that there's no clear correlation between a man's length and the size of his cock, I will take myself as an example: I'm 6ft4inches (1.96m) tall and my cock is only 8.4 inches in length (but very thick). So you see, not all tall men have huge cocks.

 

I wouldn't worry about it.. my man is 6' 7" and I'm 5' 7" and he's ridiculously huge, he even ruptured my cervix.. but I stretched and it's now not a problem.. it did hurt at first to be honest but after a few times it didn't anymore.. and now it fits perfectly..

 

Cheers for this post

I'm almost 8 inches when fully hard.

When we had sex, there was about a good inch of my cock that wouldn't go in.

She hadn't had sex with anyone else for about 6 months, so hopefully it gets easier from now on

 

^ OHHH I thought she was a virgin too. Whoops. That might've changed my post some

 

Well, in any case, an 8 inch cock is big, so you should not pound too heavily. Chances are you think she will like it but in fact she won't.

Use your common sense and only start to go really deep when you've been at it for a while and her vagina has adapted during the sex session. Or go deep when she asks you to. Talking about this can be fun and educational.

So enjoy it, it looks like you're having a nice sexual relationship with the girl.

 

I'm saving this quote.

ONLY 8.4 inches??? You ungrateful bastard! :jester:

 

Hmm, I made her bleed this time, she's happy she finally made me cum, though, lol.

She said the pain doesn't last long, usually goes away in a day or two.

 

It'll hurt no matter what until she's stretched. It'd be better just to get it all out of the way first.