I think I might be gay and I am so scared and confused, but I am not 100 per sure, so I hope with your help me to find out If I am gay or not.. Well, I was a normal boy and I liked girls and only girls, but I have been rejected and this somehow affected me and I started to wonder what it will be if I was a girl and I tried to wear girls clothes, bra and thongs (I have a sister), and then I tried to finger my ass too and even fucked my ass with objects and i liked it.. I was 15 or 16 years old back then and now I am 28. And after all that I started to think and fantasize about sucking cock and get fucked by a man.. I even sucked cock once, it was a long time ago and the man couldnt get hard, I sucked his small and soft cock, but I liked it I like being on my knees in front of him.. I was 20 years old back then. After that I had other chances to meet with a man, but I always quited before the meeting, because of shame, stress and fear.. Then I met a girl, she was my first, we fell inlove, even engaged and lived together for 3 years, but then she left me for another man.. I was totally broken after that and damaged, but these feelings came back.. Again I want to wear thongs, bra, girls clothes and started to fantasize about sucking cocks and getting fucked. I think I still like girls, I mean I turn over to them, but it is more like in the way that I am envy of them, I want to wear their clothes,to be like them, thats why I think I may be gay..
I think you are still experiencing the thing called life, and you have not made up your mind just yet... Don't let the one rejection get you down...just move along, there are many other choices and you will find someone!
No, you're not necessarily gay. Curious, maybe. Why do I say this? Because my own self wears panties and bras and occasionally other feminine clothes. Guys do it for many reasons. I've done it since I was eleven when I was introduced to it. Held the secret through the years and finally last year disclosed it to my wife. She understands my many reasons and supports me. On the second part of your question. Sounds like possibly you're curious about same gender sex. Again. I experimented with it in my teens before marriage. Occasionally fantasized about it through my marriage. A few months ago I and a friend played with our curiosity but it really didn't hit a home run with either of us but admit it was fun. But we still prefer our wives.
At your age - If you have to ask if you are gay - you are not gay. In the same sense I never had to ask if I prefer women. I had a jerk buddy back when I was in junior high, use to strip buck naked and get off watching each other jerk off. I have dressed up in women's clothing several times, I also do anal stuff to myself when masturbating etc. Hell I go online to cam forums and like people watch me jerk off! Men included. But I am certainly not gay. Daretobare gives a great answer. These are different times. Today sexuality is very-very open. The ol' if it feels good do it. And that is not homo or hetero - it is just human sexuality.
Wearing bras and panties doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. Lots of guys have a feminine side and enjoy wearing cute, sexy bras and panties. Also, if you like women and men sexually, then you're bisexual, not gay.
