Am I cute? (Part 2 for me!)

Yeah, basically a copy of that other thread... heh



Bad, dark photo, I know... but considering the fact that I've never had a girlfriend, I'm wondering what you think about the way I look.

I'm not very attractive in my opinion...

 

I'm pretty sure thats not an opinion, but more likely a fact.

 

umm dude your 15, you start dating around 12? hehehe but hey, i thought the same thing but now i got a awesome gf and had her for over a year either she really pitty's me or i got really lucky 0_o

 

Thank you!

Any more kind compliments are welcome.

Are you asking me if I started dating around 12?

If so, no, I have never been on a date nor have I ever had a girlfriend.

 

maybe it would be a good idea to get off of your computer, stop cutting your hair with a bowl around it, and not come on the internet and try to get ppl to boost your self esteem. Just be confident in who you are, the ladies love that....

 

Nice. Goto love that attitude man, keep it going, I love having something to laugh about. :&

 

ok first of all you are 15..

you have the rest of your life to get a girl.
and trust me you will... if you just have confidence in your self...

chicks love that hun ..

I love it when a guy is confident, not overly though lol.

just be your self.

 

It's quite hard to be yourself when you have social anxiety disorder. I'm too shy to get opinions from the real world, so that's why I got so angry at the guy who posted above me the last time.

 

i have social anxiety disorder too lol

and i think i manage quite fine...

are you on meds??
i am on zoloft, it helps alot with coping in the work world and around groups of people...

your not the only one, know that much ok..

just dont feel sorry for your self.. it isnt healthy..

 

Social anxiety disorder must abbreviate to SAD for a reason, my friend has that shit

There is no set definition of cute for male or female, I'm sure somebody finds you cute. At least you don't have glasses

 

No, I am not on meds, and I would rather not be on them. Besides, I like a challenge... heh.

Oh, and I know I'm not the only one, I've got several friends online (no friends in the real world for additional suckiness) who also have SA disorder and they sound just like I do... the same problems, same situations, etc.

It's hard to believe you have SA disorder and can still have sex and such without it bothering you.

If it is true, either the meds you have work REALLY well, or you don't have the problem as bad as me. As for myself, I can't imagine having sex in a million years with the way I feel right now...

Talk about having crappy days, I believe Valentines Day just about did it for me. Goto love those days that depress you and then laugh in your face. Good stuff... mmm hmm... :X

Amen to that.

 

just some advise ....


get a haircut,
shave,
groom,
shower everyday,
keep healthy..

and you will see... if you keep up with your self.

set goals, achieve them.. its important to make reachable goals, dont make one saying that you will get J-lo.. lol

just be patient... but first things first accept who you are. Know you are special for just being you.

cheers.

 

Lol, no i was saying that you're only 15 so don't worry about it. They are right be your self who ever that is and remeber just have fun with it.

 

Okay.

 

well then why complain about it?

first of all, you dont have a right to go and place judgment on me.
I have been to my share of experts.. and you dont know i have been through in the past..

people have sex for alot of different reasons:

Sex might be a way for some people to escape from reality, make them feel accepted, make someone feel wanted, loved, even cared for..
Or Two people love one-another so much through heart and soul that they just give oneanother to eachother.
There are so many reasons...
Rape, even..
Or to fit in??
manipulation, or even bribe!....

Geez, child you dont even know!! you dont know why i have had sex.. and you never will.. it is life...



{Originally Posted by psycho dub
Social anxiety disorder must abbreviate to SAD for a reason, my friend has that shit}

Just for clearance:

SAD stands for: Seasonal Affective Disorder

The symptoms of SAD usually recur regularly each Winter, starting between September and November and continuing until March or April, and a diagnosis can be made after three or more consecutive Winters of symptoms, which include a number of the following:
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sleep problems, lethargy, overeating, depression, social problems, anxiety, loss of libido, or mood changes

SP/SA stands for: Social Phobia/Social Anxiety

What I have is classified as GAD.
GAD Stands for: Generalized Anxiety Disorder.





everyones fucked in this world....

 

Heh.

 

half the fun in life is find yourself don't forget that

 

shadowd dreamer, the term abbreviates to SAD even though the abbreviation itself is reserved for something else.

 

Yup... Social Anxiety Disorder.