Am I Bisexual?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by melbgirl22, May 31, 2013.

  1. melbgirl22

    melbgirl22 Guest

    Ever since I was a teenager, I've enjoyed masturbating to lesbian porn. For some time, I even thought I was a lesbian who wasn't attracted to guys - I didn't really know any guys when I was growing up.

    Started to change when I finished high school and started dating guys. I like looking/touching penises so I know I'm definitely into guys.

    I'd say two thirds of the times I masturbate thinking about guys/watching straight porn and a third of the time is to lesbian porn/pictures of women.

    I've thought a little about experimenting with a girl but not sure if it would be as appealing in reality as it is in fantasy. I never get turned on by girls in real life or fantasise about girls I know. Whereas I do with guys.

    So do you guys think I'm bisexual? It wouldn't bother me if I was. I know the only way to know for sure would be to sleep with a girl but as weird as it sounds, I wouldn't want to go ahead with it and realise I wasn't into it - it would be so awkward!
     
  2. lively_girl

    lively_girl Member

    The only way to know would be if you found yourself sexually attracted to a girl, imo.
     
  3. melbgirl22

    melbgirl22 Guest

    Well I find everything about the female body incredibly arousing, like watching videos of lesbian sex and girls masturbating but I don't have much desire to sleep with a girl in real life. It's not that I think it's a sin or anything, I think of it as more of a fantasy than as something I would do in real life.

    It's sort of like how I will watch double penetration porn sometimes (2 guys, 1 girl) or fantasise about anal sex and get off on it but it's not something I think I would enjoy in real life.
     
  4. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

    sometimes its just a fantasy
     
  5. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    Try this for a starter:
    Go into your bedroom at night when you've finished watching a lesbian porn movie , turn off the lights & get totally nude but imagine that your clothing is being removed by a female you saw in the porn movie & not you. Then start touching your self all over still imagining it's another female doing it instead. But do things to yourself that you wouldn't usually do that may just get you very aroused. If you enjoy this, try hiring a lesbian or another female who is experienced in bi sexual relationships & see if you enjoy what they do to you that excites you.
    Or try advertising for a female for discreet fun times & see what happens ?
     
  6. silk896

    silk896 Member

    Women, for some reason, seem to be more accepting and interested, in same sex porn than men.
    Most str8 males find gay porn somewhat threatening.

    No, I doubt you are bi - just a normal woman with normal interests.
     
  7. packer

    packer Guest

    perhaps you're bi-curious. it's not a crime. many of the old taboos have fallen away and alternate sexual styles are becomming more accepted. go ahead and expierment if you want. most people have even if they won't admitt it.
     
  8. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    Not only are they more acepting of same sex porn, they seem to be more accepted when it comes to having Gay relationships. For some reason a F/F Gay partnership seems to be accepted into society far more than M/M ones - although that is starting to change.
     
  9. TBDM Miasma

    TBDM Miasma Member

    I agree with Pine man M/M is still so Taboo.

    I fantasize quite a bit about being with another guy. Mostly sucking cock but would love to receive anal too. I just cant bring myself to do it, i get to embarassed!
     
  10. kid284

    kid284 Guest

    Well my opinion, I guess its natural since tennagers can do this out of curiosity. Liking vaginas doesnt mean you are a lesbo its just you have curiosity in it. I seen many straightt women do that. If you are lesbian you would want to have a relationship with the same sex
     
  11. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    You should try advertising on Adult Friend Finder or Silver Daddies. That way you can find partners totally anonymously. There's no embarassment, as you're both know exactly what it is you're up for from the start.
     

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