am i an online stalker?

i've just been informed that i'm making myself out to look like an online stalker. i can't help it.. the man makes my heart race and my mind go a million miles an hour. .. geez i do sound like a stalker. but i'm NOT. he knows! .. wait.. maybe he doesn't really know.. i'm rambling..
so what does make one an online stalker anyways? :&

 

Depends whether you are constantly hounding him or hassling him online. Oh wait, maybe I am also an online stalker.

Anyone want a stalker?

Seriously though, if you feel like that, why not tell him?

 

I once had one and the dude followed me around online every place I went (chatrooms, game rooms).. He got my phone number and threatened to come to my house.. I changed it and he got it again.. I changed it twice and nothing else.. All I know is that he was supposedly from India and living in Washington.. He would message me tons of times on messengers (which is one reason I don't use them very often), and when I'd block him he'd get a new name and say the same stuff over and over.. Finally I changed my SN's and haven't heard anything since.. Over the last 2 months someone has been calling me and not saying anything, they just sit there.. Who knows?

 

ack!

oh gosh.. it's nothing scary like that. he does know. i guess i just feel really nosey at times. .. but i still can't help feeling like i'm bugging him

 

Who are you stalking?

 

uumm.. he post on here.. i won't say.. but if he wants he can :&

kinda easy to figure out too i'm sure

 

What do you actually do other than chat to him or post messages to him that makes you feel like a stalker? I had a stalker online but he was a stalker IRL too. That wasn't nice.

 

I think is either,

1. Crummy
2. Soulless||Chaos
3. The late CX

 

hhm.. good question.

i'm sure i know why. he's just in my every thought.. been feeling a bit obsessed with him lately.. and that's just not healthy.


sorta feel like.. he truely understands me. thats never happened before. i'm nearly 29 and never been in love.. and i'd like to be in love with him, but it's not as easy as i'd like it to be.
plus my insecurities.. make me think he won't really love me if he knew me well.

ahah.. he even knows i'm posting all this. i just need outside opinoins. :&

 

AHAHAHA no!! none of them

 

Please do tell

 

Stalking is weak.

Anyone who spends hours upon hours obsessing and harassing someone else is weaker than an infant who needs someone to give it constant attention. The only difference is that the infant is innocent of its "intrusive" actions...the stalker is well aware which makes them DOUBLE WEAK.

I had a friend whose gf dumped him and he used to drive by her house playing "their song", call her and hung up, etc. I told him that I was going to kick his ass first for being stupid (she called the police) and secondly for being a pussy--GET THE FUCK OVER IT!!!!! Move on.

 

ahaha.. i'm totally embarrassed now. he's not online now. so he can't "defend" himself. :&

 

yeah stalking is weak I agree with that!

If someone breaks up with you or rejects your offer to date, then leave 'em be.
Why in the world would you want to be with someone or continue to pester someone who doesn't want to be with you, wouldn't it be so much better to meet somebody who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them?


there are a shitload of people out there and chances are you'll find someone thats just right for you, but until that happens I would back off out of respect for this person if they are not interested.

I know I would be pissed if someone continued to stalk me after I said I was not interested.

But I still want to know who it is??? I'm so nosey!

 

eh, i dunno if it counts as stalking, but it really irritates me when someone starts messaging you every freakin time you get onto the messenger service. Within like 5 seconds. My computer signs me into msn every time I turn it on (laptop, gets turned on and off often), and i really just use msn to see if I have new email or not.

 

Ahaha, combined with your sig, I found that kinda funny...

and well I would comment, but it'd be basicly the same as libertine said

 

hehe I didn't even notice that!
That would have been kinda corny if I intended it though

 

Oh man, that annoys me.. There used to be this guy on MSN who would message me the split second I signed in asking me to see him naked on cam.. I don't know about other ppl but if I'm not attracted to someone I don't want to see their penis.. He was always a cool guy aside from that but it got really bad, to the point he would beg me to watch him jack off.. He was always on and just sitting there naked (so he said).. I did end up blocking him :&

 

okay maybe it's not stalking.. because it's nothing like that. infact he usually messages me first.
and we never had a fight and "broke up". i don't follow him around town. i don't hack him. i don't go dig in his trash. i don't hide in his bushes outside his place.

i'm just nosey and read his post .. and not even all of them. thats pretty much all the "stalking" of him i do do. is that something i shouldn't do? i learn more about him from doing so.

i just think maybe it's my own insecurities wondering if i'm bugging him, even though he says i'm not. and if i'm not, i don't want to start.

 

I don't think it's anything to be worried about.. I go to profiles just to read what people have posted recently.. Sometimes I do certain people more than others just to find out about them and because I may find them a tad more interesting.. I really see nothing wrong with it.. I wouldn't ask him constantly if you're bugging him though.. Just relax and talk to him when you can and read his posts if you want and be yourself..