When my boyfriend [of 9 months] and I are having sex, I am usually the one on top doing all the effort to get him to -you know- orgasm. Sometimes I feel as if it is not fair because he barely ever puts any effort to doing it to me. He likes to lay there and 'recieve' rather than to 'give.' He asked me what position can make me orgasm and I let him know and he has only done the position twice through out this whole time. When we are having sex and I don't orgasm, now he should know why but sometimes he's clueless. He should remember because I've told him this more than 3x. He never likes to face me either. If he is the one doing me, it always has to be doggystyle [yikes sorry for the TMI!!!] I don't thikn I am that unattractive. I am asian and petite, and I get a lot of compliments that I'm cute. He does not like intimacy and he does not like to put forth as much effort as he can to please me in bed. We rarely ever kiss when we're doing it and we rarely ever makeout. At one point in time I thought he was gay. I just don't know how to get him to be more close to me [physically]. This makes me sad sometimes. Sometimes I drive home crying because I think about how he really should put some more effort to creating intimacy, and it can't just be me who does it. Anyway, that's the story. Some advice would be helpful...thankyou.
Sounds more like you’re a possession than a gf. I like my wife on top, but she prefers other positions and I do to know knowing how hard it makes her orgasm. Additionally, the look on a woman's face that is being properly satisfied is the BEST! If you do not think your being treated like a possession and you feel he really loves/likes you then he is a seriously lazy and selfish boy. I am blunt, I know, but why beat around the bush on here. PM me if you have other questions, but I would be flipping my girl into her fav new position if she told me. He should have set speed records getting you into position for an orgasm. Okay, what position is it that best makes you orgasm? For my wife it is missionary, or doggie.
I have several suggestions: Men with small dicks think having you on top makes their dick feel bigger. Nutty, shit, no? Likewise, doggy style generally feels better for most men, especially those will small dicks. You won't find many men agreeing with this observation. Lastly, although I have more but don't feel like typing any longer, I am always available, and I will do it any way you like. Nothing like a volunteer. I have a wonderful tongue as well.
HJY right right about both of those positions, just ask my wife. She prefers me not to do those. Does he penetrate too far sometimes? My wife hates when I do that and that can also turn you off of a certain position. I prefer one where I can go as hard and strong and I want and she is not only confortable, but turned on and wiggling with pleasure. Those typically are ones she tells me she is in the mood for and no reason to argue.
first of all your looks are certainly not the issue. so forget about that especially if people tell you you're cute and he's certainly attracted to you. there are a couple possiblities. one he may be a taker. is he just like this sexually or does he have the same type of behavior all the time? two, he could have some serious hang-ups with intimacy too. it's difficult to imagine sex without all the kissing or making out to me that's part of foreplay. have you tried holding off on the sex for a while and see what happens? HJY -- just trying to get in her knickers?
he is a selfish prick and you should dump him immediately. if he genuinely didnt know how to pleasure you, it would be understandable, but if you tell him and he doesnt seem to give a shit, he doesnt deserve to get pussy. let him and rosy palmer become better aquainted. by the sound of it, youd probably have a better time by yourself.
What isnt to like about Asian girls? The skin and hair are amazing. I always feel that an Asian girl has a certain softness to her that is erotic. Sorry....
this isn't the "i <3 asian girls" thread. the OP came looking for advice and you give her sexist comments? then you apologize for what? your insensitive remarks, i hope.
Ugh, get RID of him! any situation that you drive away from crying isn't one you need to be in. If he isn't falling all over himself to please you...there's a serious lack of affection there. he's not worth it. Why are you with him? What about this relationship makes you work so hard to make it stick? Think about these things, then consider if you really want to stay or if you just don't want to be alone.
9 months no effort I would get rid of his ass. He should no how to please u a hundred different ways by now. It is obvious he is not interested in pleasing u and only himself. Dump him find someone esle who will treat you right them smear it in his face.
