My question goes mainly to the ladies. And it´s simple: Do you always want some time of foreplay before having penetration? I mean, i´ve always heard that women will get bored if the guy fucks like his jacking off, and sounds logic, i would problably also like foreplay before doing it and problably would do it most of the times, but always? I mean, if a guy sneaks on his girlfriend/wife and catches her offguard and GENTLY goes directly to penetration, will this always be considered offensive and a lack of respect for a woman´s own rythm? Won´t you ladies ever get with flow, even if it´s rare her partner doing it ? Does it has to be always a special moment where the man has to make a carefull introduction and stimulate the woman? Won´t women just take sex in a relaxed "informal" way sometimes rather then a special event always? I agree with foreplays but the pressure of having always to have care not to look too "fast" and insentive is just too much, it would be good to know that sex does not need to reflect ALWAYS the feelings of the persons involved and can be just something more... unpressured?