Almost 23 And I Have Never Had Sex

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  1. fuckingkillme

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    It's just never happened. I'm turning 23 in May and I feel incredibly lonely. I've been rejected so many times it sickens me, and I guess I'm just too fucking ugly. The below image is me.

    What do I do? Do i solicit a hooker, try to find an ugly girl, or just shoot myself?

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  2. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    Learn better communication skills.
     
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  3. morrow

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    Well don't shoot yourself!
    Thought of joining a date site? They do work apparently..
    Ugly girls? You mean you haven't yet seen that all women are beautiful!
    Oh god what did I just say???
    Your still young, if you were a woman, you would be pleased!
    Don't worry!
     
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  4. fuckingkillme

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    What do you mean? Do you mean if i was a woman i would be more glad i am still a virgin?
     
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  5. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    What exactly is wrong with still being a virgin at 23?

    Join some groups or get involved in activities where you meet others and you will probably meet someone who you wish to have a relationship with.
     
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  6. fuckingkillme

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    It's an advantage in a bunch of ways, but there a few things:

    • Social stigma
    • Depression from lack of sexual activity (which is scientifically proven to be necessary for adults and has anti-depressive qualities)
    • Lack of sexual experience before a serious relationship
    I'm not trying to become a player but being some loser chilling on the sidelines ain't too hot either
     
  7. Candybuttons

    Candybuttons Sweet Member

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    I think your really cute. It's hard to give advice without knowing more about you tho.
    Ever tried Tinder?
     
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  8. fuckingkillme

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    I'm actually trying Tinder atm lol, I just got one a few days ago. If you want to know more message me :)
     
  9. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    Sometimes people arent quite what their... avatar suggest lol... Tread carefully young grasshopper.
     
  10. fuckingkillme

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    Thanks for the heads up. That is why you carefully examine past post and status history
     
  11. Irminsul

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    and aids too, ya gotta examine for the aids.
     
  12. Michael Phelps

    Michael Phelps Am I being detained?

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    Don't worry man. You will long for these days when you can just be happy and not have a woman pissed about it.
    Focus on your path to success and they wil find you. And Tinder, yes. Get some ass from there in the meantime.
     
  13. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    So pretty much "don't worry about the sex you don't need it but get tinder because you need some ass when you're alone and having the time of your life without a woman"

    Yep. Okay.
     
  14. fuckingkillme

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    What's your issue?
     
  15. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Had nothing to do with you. ;)
     
  16. fuckingkillme

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    Ok are you sure? What are your beliefs on this then?
     
  17. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Oh. I don't care, really.
     
  18. soulcompromise

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    I wouldn't really worry about it. If you're just looking for sex you won't end up with something more meaningful though. You should set out with the right goal! Make sure that sex isn't the only thing on your mind.

    Ask a girl out on a date.

    Pick her up on time.

    Take her home without trying to kiss her.

    Repeat steps 1 - 3.

    Eventually one thing will lead to another. Just make sure it's the right girl first! :)
     
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  19. fuckingkillme

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    It's not the only thing but it's on my mind a lot. And while I would like to have sex soon I don't want it to be meaningless. Not sure how to compromise
     
  20. Michael Phelps

    Michael Phelps Am I being detained?

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    Yeah man, what's your issue?
    And OP, it's best to get burner phones, give fake names like a stripper, never let them know where you live, and take a cab so they can't get your license plate number.
     

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