My current boyfriend is starting to remind me very much of my old boyfriend. He lives for partying; for feeling good; for living in the moment. He used to be thoughtful and caring; now he just hangs out with other people all the time, and me... well, I get to have sex and give massages. Same with the last guy. Why am I saying this?!? Maybe just to get it off my chest. Are there any guys anywhere who STAY thoughtful and caring even after they've been dating as long as a year? I know, the answer is yes, but... gah, it doesn't seem like it sometimes! After the old boyfriend dropped out of school, and mostly self-destructed to make me feel bad, this kind of hurts. I know Steve wouldn't self-destruct to make me feel bad, but what he's doing now just reminds me of old bad times. Has anyone else had an experience like this? ~Nova
you're 17... most guys are pretty darn self-centred until their mid twenties or so. Of course there are the golden gems of a guy that you should hunt for, because being appreciated and loved is definately worth it.
see here is the thing, im one of the hidden jems they talk about. since i was 16 thats all ive wanted was a relationship, not just a girlfriend. i guess its either that im more mature or that ive been burned or turned down one too many times. give him a swift kick in the ass and let him know whats goin on. if that wont do the trick keep on lookin, i know i am cause alot of women r the same way.
Thanks, guys. Things will always turn out for the better, eh? I wish I could skip forward to age 26 or so and see how different things are then.
RE: you're 17... most guys are pretty darn self-centred until their mid twenties or so. I hate to break it to you....
