Question for women: Ain't this man perfect? Question for men: Do you think he was serious? READ THE DIALOGUE! Laying in the bed, kissing, almost naked.. she says: I can't. he says: Eh? she says: I'm sorry.. but I can't.. he says: Oh, it's ok. From the beginning I didn't know if you want it. I'm glad you stopped it. Really. she says: You know, I'm sorry.. but it's just too quick. he says: I know.. I'm a musician, so I automatically want everything at the moment.. but in reality, I don't want sex so quickly.. I'm really glad you stopped it. Don't feel stupid or sorry or anyhow about it.. it's really ok I also think that two people should know each other better and it should be.. something special..
No, I wouldbe really disappointed if someone said they were glad I stopped sex..... It would make me feel really unattractive.
No man is like that though. In real life she would be saying naa its not right and he would be saying yeah it is ermmm .... ohh i love you, here have a present and things like that LOL
1 of 3 things. A) he is a raging homosexual or B) he was completely lying and just said that to keep him in your good graces till u actually give it up or the ULTRA rare C) he actually meant it and actually thinks everything he told you.
maybe he wanted to say something like "Every fan would have it with me.. it's not tough to get them to the bed.. you know"
why doesn't it seem genuine? maybe im naive but the guy did say that he likes to just have things.. but sex is better if you wait.. so maybe he was all turned on but in the back of his mind he wanted to pull away all he was really saying was thank you for not letting it go farther... shoot switch roles and that same thing has happened to me.. lol minus the musician thingy
i'm kinda of thinking that if you evnr have to ask... somethings telling you that deep down you know he probably didn't mean it. of course we all want to believe that he meant it, and maybe he did. but then again, you're only 17... and i hate to say it but guys say a lot of things to younger girls.
i think hes genuine & i've done the same thing at times..sometimes it feels right to just jump right in..& sometimes it feels right to take things slower & let the anticipation build & wait for just the right time..i've been in the exact same situation (well except we were naked in a tent) and told her i didnt want it to happen that way, cause it was too easy to get caught up in the rush of desire, & i just wanted to wait & see if there was possibly something more real there...& there wasnt, so i'm glad i stopped it
Yeah, for what it's worth I'm ALSO like that. If you're not into it, fair enough. Continuing it would be in poor taste at best and rape at worst.