AHHHH (venting {warning:severe anger})

Im so sick of being the only one, out of my friends, not in a relationship. They all tell me what he did and what she did that was just sooooo cute and how much they love eachother. Really, I am happy for my friends, Im just getting annoyed and feeling rather lonley. When I ask them if they want ot chill thaey are usually with their significant other and want alone time. Yes I get along with all their boyfriends and girlfriends, so its not like they are trying to avoid conflict.

Its not even that I need a relationship, I know I dont need one, I just crave one so bad. Loving someone and being loved in return and having someone to cuddle with and be happy with.

So I just found out my last boyfriend was cheating on me the whole time and he was talking to my friend and told her that he "hated kissing me, that he would rather have his dick slammed in a door than do anything sexual with me ever again and that im not even cute" REALLY!? because I could have sworn he was fucking begging me all those times... ugh fuck him(not literally of course)!

What the fuck is wrong with me? Why do guys use me and throw me away, seriously? I've had it!

 

What kind of guys are you attracted to? Don't give me anything general. Tell me in detail, including looks, what turns you on.

The answer to the quandary may be found there, as is the case with most women who get repeatedly treated like shit by men.

P.S. Do you ever approach men or do you wait to be approached? Yet another BIG reason why women are constantly treated like shit and alone.

 

i cant believe your friend didnt tell youa bout the shit talking tht guy engaged in, im not sure the "firend" is really your friend... i would be really hurt by their behaviour

youre allowed to be frustrtaed, to want to be with someonen yet be picky and have troubles finding folk. have you considered online dating at all? thats how ive met most of my bfs, including my current wonderful one

 

Why would you want to be with someone who treats you badly in the first place? You gotta remember, when someone acts like that, its not because of anything wrong with you, its because they hate themselves and take it out on other people, because it gives them some sort of sick pleasure to tear other people down.

No one deserves to get treated like that. That being said, in a lot of cases I see a woman with a guy that really doesn't like her, and she spends all of her time trying to 'change' him, when the whole time it would have been much more simple to have someone who actually is on the same page.

 

Shit. What an asshole. I hope he really does get his dick slammed in a door.

 

I just want a guy who treats me nice who isnt an asshole and for the love of god wont cheat! Every guy i have been with has cheated which is why i am starting to blame myself, i mean come on who is that blind!? Tattoos and peircings are a plus but not necessity. but someone i find attractive obviously. but yeah thats about it, i dont think my standards are that high.

and no i dont really approach guys, i guess i dont know how? I am a bit shy as well...

Heh yeah I know EXACTLY what you mean!

Well there was nothing for my friend to tell me, I was sitting right next to her reading the whole conversation as they were having it lol.

But yeah, I dont really know about online dating like I have met a few local kids through myspace but i made sure i knew someone who knew them.

I dont want to be with someone who treats me badly I just found all this out now, he was sweet for the most part, he could be kind of an asshole but i brushed it off. Yeah i have to give him props though, he plays teh feild very well haha, they dont find out till hes done with them. ugh, i cant stand people like that.

heh thanks me too. Quite frankly thats the only thing he has going for him. haha.

 

damn i totaly feel for you..
i hope its ok im gonna pm you cause well..you'll see..lol

 

i understnad. feeling the same way right now

 

dear!
dont be desperate!
i totally understand you
for just a couple of days ago one guy treated me so badly i didnt even know it could be so....
and i'm also used to fall for the guys that turn out indifferent or assholes

but it's just a black stripe in your life...evrything will change if YOU BELIEVE
dont think mean about youyrself
coz you are really pretty...no... beautiful...believe me
dont think so, that guy was just a fucking idiot...
we all wanna be treated nicely and we will be!

kisses

 

TRUST ME YOU WILL MEET A SHITLOAD OF ASSHOLES BEFORE YOU FALL IN LOVE, just don't give up and whats wrong with taking your time in love. most of all be yourself.

 

Try not having anyone. Ever. I"ll tell you, thats loads of fun. Maybe you don't give the nice guys a chance? They're too quiet and awkward for you so you go back to the assholes who will give you the immediate gratification of talking to you right off the bat and doing all the work for you?

I'm with fexurbis on this one. If you base your choice of guys on shallow factors you'll get a shallow guy. You go for the guy who is stylish and socially confident because he's more appealing on the surface (screw whats on the inside). Then you wonder why you get stuck with assholes and complain about it. And you don't just hurt yourself, you hurt guys like me who get rejected by every girl we make an effort to make any kind of relationship with because we seem confused and nervous and not completely confident in ourselves and don't hide our personalities in shiny, flashy packages to bait you. All you care about is the package. Damn near every girl I've ever known has been this way. It makes me sick.

This is a pretty corrosive message but 20 years of uninterrupted loneliness, thanks to every girl I've ever met looking no further than a guy's clothes, car, wallet and self-assurance in their relationship decisions, has made me bitter enough to write it.

 

no no i understand looks arent everything i dont believe they are. I was asked what i wanted in a guy and not to hold back. I know exactly how it feels to be rejected because your not as good looking as someone else and i wouldnt do that to someone. Beauty is in the eye of teh beholder. I havent had teh oppurtunity to give a nice guy the chance yet.

 

yea but i totaly get where hes comming from not directed at you just his own angry ranting & yea i got my own as well..


we all just need a group hug right now

 

Well thank you for the advice. Yeahj the Goddess thing was a joke. I dont really look at myself that way and I really dont give demands in a relationship either, in fact its quite the opposite, I tend to get walked on because I am a push over and dont give any demands. I dont look for someone whos popular or who is rich or who is hot, i just look for someone who will accept me as i am flaws and all, and who wont cheat. I have never had a guy who dosent cheat.

 

I dont understand it either. If you want to fuck around just be up front but dont waste either persons time.

Yeah, see, I want a guy like that. Who is that loyal. And who would say things like 'and all other's failed in comparison to her' about me.

 

why is idt all these guys keep assumming that your a shAllpow person?
sweety ya were hurt just like i & many others, cheatting is never right & hun you didnt desserve it iot wast cause you were looking for something plastic it was just you were looking..& saw the best & ignorted the worse hjust hoping to find realness
i understand
& hun u gotta understand also maybe he wasnt cheatting on you but, cheatting to hurt himseldf & his chances, he sounds screwed up in the head, probablty depressed otrr self hating & this was his way of assuring hed nev er desserve some1 good like youm,
lakeoffire youll find some1 u desserve who will treat you like a true goddess..with respect.. i dont mesan the too good for any1 goddess i mean the powerful strong shaman woman the soul within the flesh .. some1 will cime along & loved your mind & spirit as much as your body & will treat you like an equal & a freind as well as lover

 

man uyour funny a nice guy who trweats me good is a shallow responce? thats just common sence a shallow responce would be a muscular guy who makes 100,000 & likes to buy me gifts & show me off
geez
a nice person she can get along with shows depth & maturity & shes looking fvor m,ore then an empty headed moron

just sayimng all things are not always as they apear & often its not thatthey are directly trying to be an asshole & hurt you but theyre messed up, sick, & unable to be anny better often if you look alittle deeper youll find theyre self hating & desperate.
mpot always but inmany cases the 1's eho come off as the biggest players have the lowest self images.

umm dude i know you hate wom,en & all but its true they do desserve just as much respect so yes
shes a goddess & yes she desserves just as much respect as every1 else
yes i hate to say this but in this century, men & women do desserve equal treatment respect & while i wouldnt go as far as to say worship, she should feel important..worshiped if you want.. but its just respected * equal..
you seem to have the biggest problem ever admitting that women are worthwhile, your filled with so much hatred you have zero respect & well you'll keep findong women to mistreat you
i thoink youd rather use the b word then g word for all women
& no wonder the only 1 whod give u 5 minutes fits the b word so perfectly
you got what you wanted.. a bitch instead of goddess
if she wants to be better then a bitch..let her be a goddess.. a goddess is respected a goddess is strong & a goddess is good..personaly i want a goddess
i want a woman whos above all the petty bullshit
& i want 1 who knows shes worth more then a woman hating jerk who wont tespect her for the beazutiful piwerful wonderful woman she is..or..goddess\

 

umm your assumming aloyt here your assummig her responce was calculated to seem a certain way or to hide a shallowness & isnt genuinely what she wanted.. your putting your views on all women as you do constantly 1 woman maynbe wanted you for $ (hard to imagine since arent you living on your gf's couch with no job?)
\but you assume that shes making up a responce to seem less shallow & that shows to me that your the truly shallow 1 who cant accept that so0me women maybe genuinely kind

well wheres the basic respect? can you offer even the budget model? respect for theyre basic humanity & the fact that regardless of whats between the legs theyre still people?

again comes down to respect & how you see women one pussy is like any other pussy..geez yea your a catch you'll attract the best of the best that way..lol

an d this ids why you will always find plenty of bitches & not 1 worthwhile woman would ever give you the time of day
hell in fact ya wonmt even find the run of the mill bitch..youll find like your gf u got nbopw..,the super bitch..the bitch hell bent on being the best bitch she can be & break your balls & treat you like shit..u want a bitch..u got a bitch so shut up & stop complaining.. u want a goddess you better get on your knees & beg forgiveness for yoyr attitude..no worthwhile woman wants an adsshole who thinks theyre a bitch..lol

therapy.... look into it... maybe your only hope

your poiint being?
look around women come onto whoever they come onto for whatever reasons & even the lowest of the low get hit on just like some empty heaxed morons would hit on the biggisty bitch in the world only cauise shes got DD;s or something any1 alive can get some1 to come onto them.. you missed the point entirely
the points not that women will hit on you & maybe sleep with you the point is that if you assume that every woman u meet will be a bitcyh..then youll find plenty of evidence that all women are bitches because not 1 worthwhile would ever speak to you

i havent slept in days so cant type so what..maybe one will teach you how to QUOTE?
& maybe a goddess would know theres more important things then spelling..like whats being said..& yoyur a dumb bitch..that sends a louder message then mispelling goddess..lol

 

cop\mprehending it? every thread you touch ends up the same..womem are bitches women only want this from us women dont deserve the respect they get im not going to even touch this thread anymore because like every fucking thread you touch youve derailed it into the evils of having a pussy
congrats ya fucked 6 bitches in a month..good for you..lol
who couldnt do that in a night if they were willing to fuck 6 nasty bitches
maybe the respect needs to be for yourself as much as for others
ya got slotta growin up to do dude
how bout we take a poll.. how many women find his your a bitch attitude attractive?