What was the biggest age difference between you and your partner? I am 25 years old and my partner is 61.
I had a nice meet with a 16 y o guy in N.Zealand when I was 68, and last month met a few 19 y olds in India at 72. Sex can pass age differences Simon
16 is not a child. At 16 U can marry go to war and know your mind ..sex with both sexes is legal in N.Zealand, UK and many countries. And I'm a bottom so only receive. Simon
16 is, in fact, a child and it only shows how sick people are when they have to resort to the "it's legal in XYZ" argument to justify their pedophilia. I'm 27 and I wouldn't sleep with an 18 year, especially if he's still in high school.
Glad you asked because I've been dying to tell... I am in a new relationship with a 27-year-old man, and I am 68. We met only a few weeks ago. He pursued me and told me he had been observing me for awhile, and finally a friend of his set us up to meet. It has gone amazingly well. He is so handsome, and kind, affectionate, and loving. I don't know why he wants to be with me, but I am so glad he does. I have no issues with his age, but it does bother me that looking to the future he would still be so young when I am very old.
I'm so glad, Papa Smurf, that you had a chance to share this with us. Thank you. Yes, you're very fortunate, but so is he. I've always said you're an amazing guy, and would make any man, of any age, a very lucky man. I hope your new relationship is a long and rewarding one for you, with great sex, friendship and meaning. I hope to find the same in my life with a man, and soon. At 62 my time it's running out as well. What, we've only got 30 years left?
Thank you @RisingBi - that was certainly a very kind thing for you to write to me. This is a very new experience for me. He has had a past serious relationship with an older man - it seems we are just what he prefers. I find myself asking why. I have never been a person who would think of pursuing a person so young. I know a lot of guys do love the younger one - but I can tell you one thing that is wonderful. Life gets stale and dull as we settle into our mature years. Being with a much younger person brings light, and excitement and freshness to everything we do. It is really quite fun - no matter what we're doing.
I've already met quite a number of married gay men out there had at least 30 years age difference between the husbands. But I discovered even more at a naked gay men's potluck party last night, where five of the couples--only one whom I always knew--had the same 25 to 35 years age difference between the young twink and the old man in the relationship. And these are long-term marriages. I don't know what's going on. Is it a sugar daddy kind of thing? Or is it a daddy-son thing? Because I got to say, though generally for a boyfriend I've always been thinking someone around my own age, I am very very sexually attracted to young twink men as well, and I wonder whether such a relationship is more than possible, because each fulfils something in the other.