I met this guy online. He lives in another city. We have been talking for almost 3 months without seeing each other. We just exchanged pictures. From the picture,I didn't really like him physically,he wasn't my type of guys.But,I liked the way he thinks,he talks, and he looked that he is the kind of guy who is caring...so I didn't care about the pictures anymore. So,we have been talking all this period over the phone,I really started having feelings for him,and he was showing so much affection and he started making plans; we were getting along very well together, and he said I was the best one he could talk to and and and ...I didn't want to hurry since we never met... so after 3 months,we decided to meet...When I saw him,I was so lost and anxious(anyone who looked at me that day could say it). I didn't talk,he was trying to start conversation and I was just saying 'yeah"..so I barely talked..I looked like a retarded and my face stared making all these faces (I dont know how).Maybe I was just afraid. We had lunch together, and he dropped me off and he said we will meet later in the evening, After the meeting,I waited for him to call,but he didnt...I knew that I acted weird,but come on I was TALKING to HIM for 3 months,so he knows me for real,I am not like that,I was just under pressure. I called him after 3 hrs,I asked him for his reaction,and he said that he was confused when he saw me,and that I looked better in the pictures,and that he needs time to analyse the whole situation,he didnt like the first impression I made!he asked me if we can meet tomorrow or the day after (I said no there is no need),and he didnt insist as well....he called me at night and I didnt reply and he never called back,knowing that he came to the same city where I am just to see me! Now I have the worst feeling ever,I was never treated this way,he humilated me...I dont know where all this time we spent together was lost..I feel bad,I want to cry just to relax but I didnt,I feel that I am going to explode! like did I look that ugly so that he just run like that.I dated the hottest guys before,and it was never this way...so why did he do that to me???? What do you think??? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz HELP ME
I think he's someone that you met online and this is the risk you take, I'd just walk away from the situation if he cares that much what you look like.
maybe your dumbstruck reaction to the meeting was too much for him, and like you he decided looks arent everything but, when his expectations of both weren't met he decided to bail....cut your losses and move on, it wasnt meant to be.
he doesn't really sound like a super nice guy to me Try to meet the people you are dating in person so it isn't such a shock when you meet them
