We've been going out for a little over a month and haven't had sex yet, since prom is next Saturday the 31st, I figured this would be a good way to make it memorible. But how can I let her know I'd like to have sex with her without forcing it on her? I plan on playing her a song on my guitar, I'm leaning toward Clapton's "Wonderful Tonight", I figure I'll try and sweep her off her feet, but what to do next? I'm looking specifically for subtle hints I can drop. Also where do most people go after prom to do it? Both our houses will be occupied by parents and we're only 17 so no hotels.
if shes comfortable/ready for sex then,well, shell let you know. haveyou two talked about sex, about when you'll be ready for sex? i personally think the whole sex-prom expectatio nthing is amazingly ridiculous bu thtats me
Don't get your hopes up too soon, she might not be ready, also one month is very short period. Be sure that she wants to have sex too before you go to the prom, because you might get disapointed.
"Wonderful Tonight" is a great song. Look into her eyes after you finish the song and give her a kiss.
yeah...forget the 'after prom' thing. it's a stupid stereotype. just let your relationship take its own course. as for letting her know you'd like to have sex...if you're mature enough to have sex, then you're mature enough to talk about it like adults and discuss birth control, STD prevention, potential pregnancy and what the act means to both of you BEFORE you jump in the sack. when you're ready for the conversation, you will have it. and sex is about both of you....not the prom. just talk to her about it rather than asking a forum full of strangers.
Its our prom in July. Now to then isnt enough time to fall in love with a girl, therefore i wont be having sex on the night. I'm meeting a girly friend in the summer hols though, 1 thing may lead to another.
you dont need to "drop subtle hints", you need to ask her how she feels about sex. being open and getting direct consent isnt an issue you can try and work around because you're uncomfortable, please make sure you talk to her about it openly and dont just try and read her or whatever. that could make for a very uncomfortable experience for her and you.
Don't do it. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year, still going strong, messing around once or twice a week, but are waiting to have the big S.
yeah i wouldnt do it on prom night. be more thoughtful and bang her on the swing set on a playground or somthing lol...
