So I just met a guy who is pretty much everything I ever wished for. The thing is that I´ll move away in a month, he will be in Denmark and I will be in Germany. He knows that I am moving away, and still he wanted to go out on dates with me. He told me he really likes me, and wants to meet me again. Now I´m so afraid that I´ll just like him more and more. And then, when we´ve been "going out" for about a month, maybe when things are the most romantic and wonderful, I´ll go away and maybe I will not even be able to see him for AT LEAST a month, if not 2 months... Or even longer? I am thinking that I maybe should stop seeing him, but it feels so right with him. I want to give us a chance. But what should I do, when I move away? What will happen then? I´m so afraid that this will end in a horrible heartbreak. Never in my life have I been this afraid of my feelings. Should I stop meeting him now, before it gets out of hand?
Yes stop now, by all means! Why take the chance? I mean most things in life are far more important than pursuing a romantic relationship with someone mutually attracted, right?...
Stop now. I know it will be hard but imaging how much harder it would be when you move while in the middle of getting more and more attached to him. I say quit while you're ahead. I mean, if you're down with being in a long distance relationship and both you guys trust each other, try it. You guys could video chat on Skype, but obviously nothing is better than physically being with them.
If The Separation Is Only For A Month Or So, Keep In Touch Via The Intertubes And See How It Pan's Out, From What You Say He Could Be A Keeper, Don't Run The Risk Of Losing Him For A Short Separation.... Cheers Glen.
If it really feels right with him, then why stop? I'm in an online relationship with someone, and we have yet to meet in person. However, we feel that we're right for each other and we plan on someday meeting up. Because we both feel it's "right", we don't let the long distance aspect get in the way of our relationship. As Glen has said, try interacting via the internet for a while and see if it works for you two. If it feels so right for you two, then who knows? Maybe it'll work out no matter how far apart you guys live. You never know, right? Besides, both of you will still be in Europe so it's not nearly as difficult to meet up. My girl and I live 5000 miles apart, and we're still doing fine. If we can pull it off, then I'm sure you can, too. That's what I think.
