I'm trying to break my wife of her conservative sexuality. I'm she knows I want to get in her ass and she hesitates. But I want her to give me a pegging so she can see how it's enjoyable. Any tips on what I can do to talk her into it?
It's a fact more 'conservatives' are into anal sex than 'liberals'. Maybe she just does not want anal sex with you. This might put a strain on you marriage. How long have you been married for? I sense not long. You could always divorce and marry someone else. No real harm done.
If you're talking about pegging (Female to Male), you might want to check out Ruby Rider's pegging paradise website and podcasts. There are a few "tamer" films as well if she's willing to watch semi-porn with you - they usually begin with "guide to pegging" or "pegging 101" -Google is your friend. If your girl is more "aural" you can find some good romantic strap-on stories on literotica (.com) and read them to her - maybe with some candles and wine? If you're talking about anal either way - good lube - and lots of it, maybe some latex gloves - short fingernails, maybe some small toys (silicone are the best as they are non-toxic and can be sterilized) Start with fingers, work up to larger slowly. Show her that it can be a very loving and giving act for either of you. Glhf
Make sure she takes a crap before you start. Giving her an enema can ensure her empty colon and make clear your intent. A few drinks before enema may be helpful and is itself a turn on for many. Then have a few drinks together. Next. screw her doggie way with her on hands and knees and while doing so finger her butt ever so gently. Then proceed to gently probing her anus with your pecker and take it from there. Also, women enjoy having their clit played with while getting butt fucked. Most women will eventually get into it if you take your time and never force the issue. It may take a few attempts to get her interested. But I never met a woman who could not be persuaded if you take your time and let her get used to the whole thing. Of course some lube is required. Spit will work in a non-planned situation, but there are lubes available for this. Some of my fondest memories are of some gorgeous woman on her shoulders and knees spreading her ass cheeks with her hands and BEGGING me to fuck her ASS. Nothing like it my friend. Don`t give up. She is your wife. With some care and gentleness most women do enjoy a good ASS FUCKING now and then. And the sight alone of your cock up her ASS is something you will NEVER forget. Oh yes, I made them spread those gorgeous ass cheeks and BEG me stick my cock up their ASSHOLE. You can do it also.
He needs to relax..so a couple of drinks could help..I first introduction to analyze was via small vibratory and dildos used alone or with a partner ..with these little toys and lube find his prostate ..go slow .there are "road maps" online as to which direction to point to find it..once you do, he will know..the pleasure is intense and if you work it right, he will explode..I found the pleasure from ass play addictive so it was only a matter of time before the toys got bigger and I was soon very open.. (pun intended) to pegging. .the main thing is to tap into the pleasure ahead and not focus on the initial and brief pain of penetration. Once it's passed the analysis ring it's in and it's all uphill from there!
For me it's just plenty of lubricant in and around my arsehole and even more on the strap-on. All you need the is the desire to do it and anal pleasure is all yours. Admittedly it hurt a little when she first penetrated me but that tiny bit of pain was eclipsed by the incredible sensation of my wife fucking me in the arse. It's a fantastic emotional feeling as well as an amazing physical feeling. I feel truly liberated having been both the giver and receiver of anal sex.
