I need some sex advice.... ive been with my bf 4 months and have really fallen for him. The problem is i cant climax during sex...i dont know what it is. I enjoy it, it feels great....and thats including oral etc.. Any tips? Or anything new we can try? Im sick of faking it but i dont wanna hurt his feelings. Im getting really frustrated. HELP PLEASE!
I can't really help you here, not being a girl and having no prob with orgasms, but you might want to look at this thread which is peripheral to your prob. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=302788&page=2&pp=10
a lot of women dont orgasm during intercourse alone. i dont, i require clitoral stimulation (ie oral sex before hand)... be honest with him and then you two can explore a lot more sexually together
honesty... tell him about it.. u may hurt his feelings but if u tell him that u want him to make u feel good he'll probably get over it fast. GREAT sex in a way, is mostly about teamwork
manually touching your clit during sex helps. i usually need to give myself a hand getting off during sex so i can climax too.
If you can't be honest with your partner, then your sex life will never improve. Good sex is based in good communication. Why in the world would he be hurt? If he's mature enough to be having sex, then he should be mature enough to understand that it's a process. It takes time to learn one another's bodies and no one has Hollywood sex, fireworks and orgasms all the time right off the bat. Start being honest with him, and start incorporating clitoral stimulation. When you two are honest, and open with one another, you will learn what is most pleasing to each other.
jump aboard and work it from the top, you`ll have control over speed and angle of penetration, you can reach down and play with your clit, or spin around and do a reverse. or get yourselves a chair ( a must have sex-aid ) and sit him down, you get on top and let him reach around and rub your clit for you, if its your thing- let him wrap his other arm around your neck or he could rub your titties at the same time.... thisd works great in front of a mirror too.
