Adoption or Abortion?

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This is a cross-post... I answered in the other forum...

 

whoa.. i couldve sworn i just answered this thread



edit: which other forum

 

Adoption for me... I can't bear the thought of ending a life who depends on me to live. I've had childern so I know that love and connection you feel with a child growing inside of you. If I had no other choice I'd give my child to a family who would love and care for my child as much as I would. I'd prob go open adoption too so I could watch the child grow.

 

I'd choose Adoption!

since I have a daughter... I know the feeling!

 

hey oceanlily did u notice your daughter and my youngest son are very close in age? my son is 3 days older than ur daughter.

 

Honestly if I got pregnant right now, I'd choose abortion.

 

I'd choose abortion right now too. But I'm on birthcontrol that's 99% effective, so the chances of pregnancy are quite low for me (lower yet, since I'm not seeing anyone let alone having sex with 'em)

I'd like to adopt when I get older though, I think. Not a baby, but someone a little older, since I hear the older kids are often passed by because of their age. I'd have no problems with adopting someone who's 5-12 somewheres, but when I get older, finished my education, and have a real job.

 

I'm on birth control pills too, and we use condoms, so the chances of us getting pregnant are pretty darn slim. But you never know, things happen. That's why it's so important to talk about pregnancy BEFORE knockin' boots - that way everyone is on the same track.

 

for me right now... neither. but at different points in my life, i would have said different things.

 

I just noticed it now... Lily was born on October 7th 2003... thats so neato!!!

 

As this was a double post I am going to close it. You can put your replies on the other thread. Posting the same thing is not allowed on the Forums. LL, I know you are realtively new, but Please refrain from doing this again. Kay?

Here's a link to the original post in the Love and Sex Forum. Y'all can continue the discussion where it started.

http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=61810