Girls, what are your favorite ways to spend time with guys you're attracted to? If you want to specify between the getting to know each other phase and the avoiding boredom phase that would be tremendous. I assume the obvious things like watching movies, eating out, and making love will be on the list, and feel free to mention them if they're your favorites. What are some more unconventional ideas you'd love to try out or already actively engage in? How about watching your guy perform well in athletics, or participating with him? Camping maybe? (I'm not really a fan) I'm not nearly creative enough to think of anything else at the moment, but I look forward to hearing your insights!
bowling, minigolf, batting cages, go cart, roller skate.. idk, racket ball, tennis, weight training together.. are you asking for ideas??
Those are all freaking awesome because I love sports, but they're all ... sports basically. Where are all my lazy girls at? haha I need you right now. Yeah I'm asking for myself, and all guys who have trouble keeping it interesting (almost all of them?), and for the benefit of girls who are bored.
play bingo and bingo was his name oh,,, Or you can go to a cultural center and play bongos..:smilielol5:
Scrap booking! My wife loves that. AND you get to preserve you memories. We also like to see new stores.
simple things like walking the dogs or visiting the animal shelter are fun. I don't know there are a million things I can think of. What kind of stuff are you wanting? Where about do you live?
I live in Florida, it shouldn't be hard to think of things to do here I know. I'm mostly just not digging the party / bar / club scene and anything other than that doesn't seem all that cool to a lot of people. I guess I'm looking for anything that doesn't make me break a sweat which happens all too easily for me in Florida in summer especially when I'm working out frequently (all the time) and drinking a lot of water (all the time). You guys are great by the way, I love this site!
I love it too. I am making a hipforums blowup doll. I REALLY love it... Well what I said are good options. You could also drive to the beach, or the country. Free museums, zoos. I know that all of this sounds really good to me... I would kill just to be able to do any of those. wait a cotton picking second... I DO! hahaha.
lol Stop committing murder for your personal pleasure. Now if your god is telling you to do it that's different obviously. Museums and zoos are fantastic ideas, I don't think I've been to any since I was a kid. Muchos gracias.
Speak for yourself, and don't assume too much. If you only want lazy activities, you've narrowed down your options quite a bit. Lay in the grass/wherever and watch the clouds or the stars, sit on the beach, people watch in a busy city street.. If things have gone stale, non-lazy activities are probably better than lazy ones. If you're just starting out, then either can work. A really good fun activity, if the girl is up for it, is to be partners in crime in something. Nothing serious of course, like steal some apples from a neighbor's garden, start a snowball fight with some local kids, ding dong ditch, etc. Going to thrift stores and playing dress up can be fun, too. I think what's most important is to find stuff you like to do, and then include her in that.
I do kill for freedom. I am a soldier. Its wut we do... I don't have the freedoms of laying in the grass or going to the museum right now. I guess I could lay in the sand in my gear... Trust me, its not pleasurable.
Ahh I thought when you said you do you meant you do go to museums and zoos, my bad misread. I didn't know you were in the armed services, where are you stationed? Anyone who is fighting for a free Afghanistan or helped dethrone Saddam Hussein is an ally of mine.
Sweet! I am an ally! I am in baghdad right now. Will be for the next 6 months... Now I have 1 ally...
You have more allies than you think! How is stuff going over there? Are the majority of the natives still grateful or are they ready for you guyzes to leave? Is the religious turmoil improving steadily or is it up and down?
It is totally negative all the time. None of the Iraq are happy we are here. They hate us a lot. All of them. It sucks over here. We are all ready for the us to leave. We will all be gone in 2011 though...
I would suggest what I do, go for a walk, take her out to a play, museum, take a yoga class together, concerts, cook with her, toke together, just a few suggestions.
I like doing all of those. Activities are good. I like skating, sledding, yoga, dancing, coffee, lunch, dinner, going to parties together, museums, concerts, frisbee in the park... normal things.
You know, one really good way to keep things fresh in a relationship is to go exploring. Whether it's a new city, a new restaurant, or a walk someplace you've never been. Discovering memories together is a great way to uncover something new or something wonderful together.