Whenever my husband plays with my nipples, it doesn't turn me on, it tickles. Anybody else get this? I like when he rubs my breasts but my nipples are ticklish.
My current g/f doesn't get much out of it either. It is not that uncommon. I have a friend whose g/f (Spectacular breasts) doesn't even really like them touched. Go figure. It is very much a person to person thing. One of my last g/f's would cum with just enough nipple stimulation.
I always feel a good sensation when I get my nipples being touched or stroked but it depends, it must not be done with pression but very smooth strokes or caresses and perhaps you have to tell him to do it with the tongue when he gives you some caressing licks with the tongue, I can assure you that you will feel the sensation
My wife's has very big nipples that are super sensitive if I go right to her nipples but right before she cums I can pinch them fairly hard and she loves it