So you aren't trolling, but you just sincerely called your own opinion obviously stereotypical and quite dumb?
Just because I have a dumb opinion doesn't mean I don't agree with it. I'm sure you haven many dull opinions that you're too arrogant to change. It doesn't make them any less wrong as long as you're sure about them. I'm a farmers daughter, it's impossible to try and teach me that men these days aren't soft. And it all stems from "men" that say this "oh I can't eat a steak medium rare, it has to be well done. I don't like blood." Bunch of girls blouses, the lot of ya. Hiding behind your computer screens, get a real job ya mongrels. Us Bavarian woodsmen folk don't like the Pussyfootin' around attitude you new age men have. If you want to eat you've got to kill your meal. Even us Bavarian womenfolk know this. So yes I think it's quite adequate of me to state who's a man and who's a fairy based on my life experiences.
A real man is simply a male- usually of adult age who willingly and quietly assumes responsibility for his lot in life without complaint. I've met real men who were 16 years old and met 50 year old boys. There are times when I don't qualify.
If I come to the realization that I'm in possession of what I deem to be a "dumb" opinion, then I'm going to work on changing that. Question of arrogance aside, I honestly can't think of a single opinion I have that I consciously consider to be "dumb" and yet still cling to it anyways. That would simply be bizarre. Speaking of bizarre, I find your view of men oppressive and sexist.
Of course they're chauvinistic, I'm a lesbian. I'm attracted to male masculinity. Unfortunately it doesn't exist any longer. Bar brawls, weights, gym sessions and which girl you tried fucking on the weekend aren't exactly the perks I'd ever be searching for in a male companion. This might not be you at all, but let's face it, I'm 23. There ain't much else going for my generation at the moment other than these boring repetitive conversations that are so evident in society that they're almost concreted into the roots of the generation itself. This has much to do with why none of my friends are younger than me. The younger generation is of no interest and I often find all the time in the world to sit in a pub and talk to the old folks about days of old. So if you're 45 years old or older then my opinion on males isn't a valid opinion on you, I'm just opinionating the group of morons that I have to deal with of my age. And my generation of males are pretty much all soft and I see no clear solution for the future.
If I can play psychologist here for a bit, might I suggest that your romanticized image of what you deem to be an attractive male seems to be a projection of the unattainable father figure in your life. In other words, you are cutting people short before you even know them, because they couldn't POSSIBLY live up to your toughness standards based on their age. By making sweeping generalizations about an entire generation of men, you effectively distance yourself from a demographic for no other reason than idealism, and superstition regarding an older generation. "Male masculinity doesn't exist anymore" is just blatantly untrue. You are searching for something that you are keeping away from yourself, because you are under-cutting people by making assumptions about an entire age group. You should delve deeper into yourself and figure some things out about your relationship with your father.
Though I don't believe male masculinity doesn't exist anymore, at least around my way, I must admit that most men are a big bunch of pussy's.
The visions of what men should be are amongst the visions I have of mermaids and unicorns and I find it quite healthy to vision things like this. My father is a son to an SS officer of the totenkopf panzer divisions. My father was raised with a lot of disciplin as were all of us. My father produced four daughters and I claim to be the son because I can shoot better and I'm more hands on than my sisters. So he took me out of school and traveling all around Europe selling, trading and buying goods from farmers market stores all the way to Sweden. In this business I only met hardened men. Not men that flooded your brain with psychology lessons and family therapy. Heh, family therapy is a good clip around the ears.
lmao also, in response to the original statement, it would be nice if men these days could actually live up to that standard...
Intelligent lean men are actually a lot hotter than "real" men who are all dirty and dopey from too much football.
You're not not changing your opinions because of your arrogance, your background, nor your life experiences. You're not not changing them because they are convenient for you. Real men = pussy whip. And, you're far from being the first person that I know who insists on a convenient, lazy, and cowardly idea of manhood. Nor, do you have to be a farmer's daughter to be so hypocritical or dependent.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJ_1wyWmBVM&feature=related"]YouTube- Panzerlied (fixed sound) Hotwater
A womans place is where she happens to be. A man still has to imagine his place! Man and Woman should get it on. lol
Personally, I'm not going to play football; but I can sure lose my voice yelling at the stupid fucking zebras. I'm not going to start a fight with someone, and am going to diffuse the situation when someone's being an asshole, rather than throw-up; but I'd fight a monster truck if it looked at my girl the wrong way. Overall, EVERYONE's too soft these days; but our lives make it so. And most all the tough guys I know have major insecurities and complexes like my mechanic friend that constantly talks about how big his penis is when drunk, or my friend that can bench well over 300, yet was too awkward to ask for the manager when a clerk cheated him from his change, and when I was asking him why he didn't, he starts talking about going to get his piece and blowing her head off. In conclusion: tough men are the biggest pussies.